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In an effort to get me to do something, my wife said I needed to do it, because "frankly, there are some guys in the office that seem like they would be a lot of fun to fuck."

Naturally, she claims this was a joke and refuses to apologize for it. She says it wasn't meant to be taken seriously. And claims it's insulting I would react to it, because it implies something about her.

While I don't think she was actually threatening to sleep with her office mates, I didn't think it was funny either. In fact, it infuriated me. When she said it, of course my mind immediately pondered "Who the heck is she talking about?" / "Is there some truth to this joke?" / "Do I have to be worried about this now?" / etc. After all, something or someone cause the so-called joke popped in her head.

I thought it was disrespectful, in poor taste, and out of line. And I can't help but think had I done the same thing, I would have been absolutely raked over the coals for the rest of the week.

Yet, she's defiant that I'm overreacting and refuses to apologize.

So, am I overreacting? It's not that I can't handle the fact that my wife would find someone else attractive at work. I get that. I find women at my office attractive. But I would never ever think it appropriate to tell my wife, "You know, you should really pick up the kid today because the next firm outing is around the corner and, man, some of the women we just hired make me have second thoughts about our marriage."

My girlfriend went on a girls trip to Vegas. I was very uncomfortable but I'm not a controlling boyfriend. So I told her "do whatever makes you happy" and she went. When she came home she told me about how she made friends with the bar tender Jose who was such a nice guy. She told me about how Jose gave her free drinks and low key brought her weed. She even added him to snapchat. I'm very uncomfortable with this situation but I haven't said anything. If I say something that will alert her she'll cover up her tracks, so I'm keeping cool. She says she didn't find Jose attractive. I don't know if I believe her but she's been talking about him lots. She was also on her period during the trip. Aren't women more likely to cheat on their period? What's even more disturbing is her friend Amber she went with kind of cheated on her man. Amber gave her number to a guy and told him she's single. Last year my girlfriend went on a trip to Miami and I didn't feel uncomfortable. Now this trip so much is going through my head. Maybe it's due to the fact that she's been fridid all year. I don't know what to think right now