Me and my ex broke up about two months ago. It was a mutual break up and we were on good terms. We'll I thaught we were until yesterday.
Back story - I met him at a hookah cafe (hookah is shisha cafe) we got on straight away and started to talk to each other. One thing lead to another and we started dating. But we quickly realised that were were just better off as friends and we broke up. It was a mutual and friendly breakup. Ever since we broke up we have been good with each other, we talk like friends say hi and bye etc. Until yesterday, he brought another girl with him. When I seen them I smiled at him abd her and I went about doing my business and minding my own business with my friend wich is a female.
I didn't have no problem with him being with another girl. Its what he did that made me feel uncomfortable. We were sitting back to back and he kept on tugging at my hair. The first time he did it I let it go. The second time I did the same thing and I let it go when he did it the third time one of my guy friends was like he's Trying to call you he keeps touching your hair. So I turned around and told him please can you not touch my hair.
And another thing was that when I was laughing with my friends he kept on laughing over me like it was a competition. Then he kept on saying to the girl that he was with next time we won't come here we will go somewhere else. In my head I was thinking its kind of disrespectfull to thr girl that he was with becasue he was more consumed with getting my reaction then spending time with her and talking to her. My guy friend was at the cafe first and he told me that before me and my friend got there he was not even speaking to the girl. I was confused becasue he seemed so OK with me before.
Back story - I met him at a hookah cafe (hookah is shisha cafe) we got on straight away and started to talk to each other. One thing lead to another and we started dating. But we quickly realised that were were just better off as friends and we broke up. It was a mutual and friendly breakup. Ever since we broke up we have been good with each other, we talk like friends say hi and bye etc. Until yesterday, he brought another girl with him. When I seen them I smiled at him abd her and I went about doing my business and minding my own business with my friend wich is a female.
I didn't have no problem with him being with another girl. Its what he did that made me feel uncomfortable. We were sitting back to back and he kept on tugging at my hair. The first time he did it I let it go. The second time I did the same thing and I let it go when he did it the third time one of my guy friends was like he's Trying to call you he keeps touching your hair. So I turned around and told him please can you not touch my hair.
And another thing was that when I was laughing with my friends he kept on laughing over me like it was a competition. Then he kept on saying to the girl that he was with next time we won't come here we will go somewhere else. In my head I was thinking its kind of disrespectfull to thr girl that he was with becasue he was more consumed with getting my reaction then spending time with her and talking to her. My guy friend was at the cafe first and he told me that before me and my friend got there he was not even speaking to the girl. I was confused becasue he seemed so OK with me before.
