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I don't think so and honestly, I don't ask for too much other than:
- Commitment
- Honesty and no cheating
- No violence obviously
- Time and dedication (for instance if either of us have time during our break, we can briefly say hi to each other).

However, my mother still has this belief that a man has to buy me costly stuff and take me to somewhat elegant places to show he cares about me. My parents' marriage is miserable anyways and it's all fake smiley pictures on fb (there is no love). The idea of me being measured in price value to be won irritates me. Sometimes I even feel insulted. I learned about love on my own. Most of her conversations about a loving man is almost always about what much did something cost, how often is he taking me out and the guy wasting his money as a way of him proving his love towards me.

Ironically, I have a younger 14 year-old brother and she would want a girl that works and pays for her own stuff. She doesn't want a materialist girl that demands too much for him.