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Please tell me I'm wrong. We've been dating for over a year now (but known each other for 3 years). I wouldn't cosider us dating tho. We're always talking about the future (with both of us being together) and starting a family. I would take a bullet for her

But recently she has not been putting effort into our kisses. I've asked her why and she always says it's her breathe and thinks it's embarrassing or she'll just say she's tired. But... I just don't feel wanted anymore. She just gives me a quick peck and turns away. Her kisses don't feel the same anymore. I understand she's tired from working but I've never been too tired to show affection even in a small way.

Sometimes I try to hug her but she doesn't hold it for very long. When I try to initiate sex, she tries to lead me away. She won't initiate any sort of phusical contact very often. I don't know if I'm just an attention whore but it really hurts. I would tell her but we just got over a kinda big fight. Should I tell her?

(This has been going on for 2 weeks now)

I will try to keep this brief:
If you wish to skip over the history leading up to my conclusion go to the end.

I've been in a relationship for 7 months now (in my low 20's) and the love I use to know when I was younger (before this relationship) seems unreachable to me now.
My previous girlfriend lasted over a year long, and ended 2 years ago. The time between then and my current relationship starting, I had one time dates (tinder) that never lead to anything at all.
And I had also gotten into the hook-up culture, which never appealed to me as a nice thing, just a means to an end.
When I met my current girlfriend (via tinder) I was happy that I was talking/texting someone that actually seemed interested in me.
When I finally met with her after talking for nearly a month, I was nervous, but tried to play it cool, and we just talked to each other for a few hours.
We decided that we liked each other enough to go for a second date (which was the day that we became a couple).
From that 2nd date I had a feeling that this was going to last. But as time went on (a couple months) I stopped feeling excited to see her to just happy. I never felt the love I had when I was younger with her in the first place, but I saw potential in the relationship. As time went on we became more intimate, i. e; kissing, groping, cuddling, and eventually sex. But every time I go to see her I only feel happy, and nothing like what I knew in the past. Like there is something missing..

Long story short:
I feel like an end in my current relationship won't hurt too bad, because I know that I could come to love other people BUT I also feel like I love my girlfriend HOWEVER I don't feel the love I had when I was younger (which is when I came to define the feeling of love).

And I was wondering if anyone has felt anything like this. I appreciate any and all commented opinions/stories/explanations.