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Im not talking about settings where a short bald and overweight 50 year old stranger directly hits on an attractive 19 year old. That a no brainer on creepiness.

Im talking about being less polite to people in non romantic settings like waiting in line for coffee or getting a conversation on a subway (around lots of people). A 50 year old stranger should be able to have an innocent conversation with a 19 year old (maybe talks about his kids going to college) or something. Just as long he’s not saying or doing stupid then he’s not doing anything wrong. But if a person is unattractive (age, weight, looks, etc.) we tend to judge them more harshly.

I’m guilty of doing this myself. But I try to check myself. That person could turn out to be a genuine good friend. I think as society gets more sensitive to people with differences this would be a good thing to improve upon. That doesn’t mean being naive to strangers of course. But it means checking that unpleasant thought you have of that person and seriously asking if that’s fair and even reality?

There are two guys I know who are pretty good friends. The question is end up the most desirable and successful in life? So who is going to be doing better in 25 years if we can check on them again. I will describe them to you and you decide who will fare better in life. And make your choice and explain your belief.

Guy 1:
Guy 1 Is 25 years old and is recent college graduate. He met guy 2 while working a blue collar job to sustain himself and worked through college and graduated college with no debt, owns his own car lives in his own apartment. He now works at a decent tech company. He is a hard working person, learns quickly and moves with purpose and vision. He's a thin, fit guy who is very dedicated to fitness and loves to go to the gym. He's very young looking for his age, couldn't grow facial hair on a bet. He likes to read and likes to learn new things. He's got lots of interests and he's strong and smart. He has dated, and had a couple of relationships, moderate dating and he can fairly easily get a date, in fact women ask him out some times.

Guy 2:
Guy 2 is 24. He still works at the blue collar job, but he's trying to get a better job in the industry and he's about to get it. He, however, has not been to college in fact he did not even graduate high school. He dropped out because he got his girlfriend pregnant at 16 had had a baby with her. He has been already married and divorced. He lives paycheck to paycheck, barely sustaining himself in the trailer that he rents with his child. Though not educated guy 2 is good with numbers and is just good at math generally. He too, is a hard working guy and he tries to do the right things, but he has a child and it's harder. He's a good looking thin guy that doesn't care for the gym he gets enough exercise at work, but he's fairly confident. He doesn't date much, but he has had a fair share of brief hookups.

I have been rather depressed, stressed, and engulfed in fear over these past several years. It has consumed me and has weighed heavily on my shoulders for a very long time.

I am 27 and never had a real girlfriend before. My wish is to have a woman who has never had her first love before. I seek one that has never formed romantic bonds with guys before me. I seek a woman that has not only never made love with a guy before, but also one that is also a virgin in her heart, meaning she has not been in love with a guy, especially during her youth (like college age or younger).

I found an 18 year old girl like that last year. She was a devout Catholic, sheltered, and was homeschooled her entire life. She never had a male friend before she met me. Sadly, when I went to meet her for the first time in person, she told me I wasn't her type. I was crushed.