Im mainly referring to in person cause online we dont know wtf to believe lol. Before covid hit, Grocery stores, Movie Theaters, Gas Stations, Gamestop and the Walmart/Target/Best Buy game aisles were the hot spots in terms of meeting 🤣 But shit man. One super tall ass dude flirted one time (which im 5’2 so everybody damn tall compared to me lol) and we connected. Then he said “so what grade you in?” 💀 lmao the college team shirt he had on fooled tf out of me. After that day, i said nah let me meet mfs at the casino where i know for sure they’re 21+ 🤣 And then, old men be following me around at the grocery store. They just go “Aye little mama.” Like no old man stop 😂 One dude said, you in college based off that shirt. I ran to the nearest old lady and said “Mommy why is that man talking to me. Tell him under 18.” Sorry im petty af 🤣 Get this, this mf goes “Well since she's too young, how old are you (to the old lady).” 😭 Pimp shit
Now i gotta start askin age again cause this time, these mfs are way older than expected 🤣 First it was the youngsters and now its the Late 30s to 40s to 50s year old mfs keeping in shape lookin like they mf 25. Thats great and all but no thanks. This shit sucks 🤣 thumbs.gfycat.com/...eakableFishingcat-max-1mb.gif
Oooh boy it's been a long time since I last had this problem. Most people I talk to in real life are unlikely to be mistaken for someone who is underage. Someone who is, say, at least 24, no matter how young-looking and cute they are, will sound different the moment they talk. When someone looks too young and feels too young, well, I guess I'm not that interested anyway. Exception: I practiced (non-sexual, and with witnesses) bondage with people around 19 or so, I'd guess. I had no intention of making it sexual anyway.
No I don’t and I learned my lesson. I met this boy when I was working at Walmart , he was 6’3 buff, light skin with curly hair. He came up to me and told my I was pretty and wanted my snap. I gave it to him and we started flirting. He asked me how I old I am and I said “21 wbu” girl….. this boy was 15… I blocked him so fast.
You are so funny I can just picture all that happening to no I never do I can kind of yes but they're age might be give a couple years here there it really that's the last thing I think of not unless it's just playing right there in front of my face then I will ask
"Im mainly referring to in person cause online we dont know wtf to believe lol."
Gonna be honest here, It's way easier to tell online, in fact if I know a person's full name I can usually figure the rest out.
"Before covid hit, Grocery stores, Movie Theaters, Gas Stations, Gamestop and the Walmart/Target/Best Buy game aisles were the hot spots in terms of meeting 🤣"
Seriously? people just hit on random strangers they know squat about? What the actual fuck... I'm sorry.. but... thats just REALLY messed up... to flirt with someone you know nothing about? Just why? No wonder most relationships end in breakup...
Well personally I don't really persue/strike up conversation in person with strangers at all. I go in, I buy what I need, and I leave. Unless your the cashier, You won't get so much as a peep from me.
I meet people by friends of friends, or online, or both.
If I did meet people in person outside of that, and there was a girl I thought was pretty at gamestop ersomething, I wouldn't take interest enough to flirt with her until years of knowing her as a friend.
So it's not that those aren't good places to meet people, it's just that when I first meet someone. flirting is just inappropriate. Because I don't know enough about them to even know if they would even make a decent friend. Flirting seems like jumping the gun by a mile to me.
I only would ever date a female best friend, and I'm only best friends with people who share my interests and hobbies.
Online I feel like its much easier/faster, people online are very open most times, they tend to write all sorts of things about themselves or post things they like, it's like getting 1,000 answers to questions I haven't even asked yet.
I don't really ask girls their age, just because most places where I meet girls are mostly at parties or social events - where a lot of them are around my age as it tends to be within a friend's social circle.
I don't really approach girls in public anymore so maybe at places like wedding I may ask for their age during conversation.
He's either a 'playah' or the societal 'the Game Warden'. Pulls out a tape measure,... Too young; THROW HER BACK! (but I was doing 'catch & release'!) :O
I don't ask and try to use my but judgment and guess there age. I usually find our by asking certain questions like what school did you go to and then do ask. I have accidentally guessed wrong and flirted with a girl who was 15 but she looked 30.
trolly girls are my favorite girls. I loves me my little troll she-devils. actually 3 of my gfs were your exact same height and one was 4'11 and one was 5'1. Tallest girl i dated was 5'9 and the other was 5'5. shorter girls just like tall guys? *shrug*
taller but realistic too. I can dig that. I'm 6'3. when my ex pulled my ass down to her level i was surprised how strong a little lady could be lol. I was caught off guard like damn girl! lol
she grabbed my tie and grabbed me into that kiss. I was almost to shocked to enjoy it. it happened so fast. same height as you too lol. I was like damn girl!
Only if I suspect she is a minor. Unfortunately for female's I don't start flirting, they must start it and I lose interest if it doesn't escalate very fast to something more.
No, I've never had to do that and never had a problem when I was flirting when I was younger because I didn't have to worry about jailbait being on my college campus. Now, when I was in my late teens and 20s, I did sometimes have jailbait hit on me, but I could easily tell that they were and I would quickly excuse myself.
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No, I don't think I have ever been in real doubt if a guy was more of a teenager or older.. though I had some too young guys flirt with me, don't think below the legal age but still had to stear it away from that or tell them directly they were too young.
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Yes, there is not only too young but also too old. I don't want to date someone who is over 25 either. Even though I'm 50.
i dont get into flirtin and ill tell ya why generally my game works from indirect to direct with indirect bein my check point and when it comes to mackin to women what i do is based on white supremacy and gender feminism what i do is play everything safe just to insure im not lied on and set up with flirtin ya can either be romantically interested in someone or not and i'd rather women not feel like im playin with em also waitin for choosin signals is much more effective than cold approachin
Completely it's not guaranteed that well live a long life together or he'll be physically sound and vice versa our whole life but I don't want to be a carer or running around after some immature guy
Nah, I just flirt with those who are older, I remember being 21 and flirting with a woman who I guessed was about 23, turned out she was 26 but she though I was about 27-28 and I had to reveal my true age and that well that cooled things in a moment
the isusse with you with some people looking yonger could still be 23 but have a baby face make you like a bait. is not always going to be truth. I always ask the age.
I don’t really flirt. Nowadays girls out looking as old as I am when they’re really freaking teenagers. I can’t really tell if girls are old enough or not
@spartan55 i be hating cause she and my grandma got ass and hardly any tits. I got tits and hardly any ass. My sis got both. My grandma be twerkin dat ass. My mom can't shake shit lol. I be shaking even if my ass is small. My sis be like, i ain't shakin shit. Lmao waste of ass and tits yo
In that case age does matter I don't need no problems from the law at all so you're right maybe I should start asking but they look older then you don't have to but then that might be an insult too I don't know I'll figure it out I kind of add new I figured out as I go along
because that would imply I am concerned about age... which I am not
I mean, I never get involved with girls that are school age... lol
and after college age, I really don't care about it that much... one time I met this girl who looked 20 something... and days later I found out she was actually 10 years older than me, she just "didn't look" it
I've known several women who could pass for 18-21 when they were actually late 40s/50. And this isn't something I'm just saying at my age now... I saw it when I was 20s. You could tell they were older when you talked to them usually. One woman liked pretending to be really young tho.
@DizzyDesii No... You shouldn't assume lol. I mean, obviously, God is going to have something to do with it. Because He's sovereign over everything. But I'm not one of those people who sits around twiddling their thumbs waiting for something to fall into their lap.
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