Search Results: low self confidence

Ways You Might Be Sabotaging Yourself

1) you don't take chances you act like all is lost before you even give it a try, you don't ask that person out cause "why would she go out with you anyways" you don't apply for that job cause "there are other 50 people...

SpaceMapache

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Society & Politics

Have you got any advice?

I'm 23 and from Istanbul. I'm an honest, kind, caring, open-minded and smart guy. I think I look normal. I like reading a lot and listening to classical music. I don't work. I'm lazy in social life. My self-confidence is...

tFSBx

Xper 3 Age: 33

Health & Fitness

My boyfriend wants me to loose weight. Do I stay?

My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly 2 years and I have gone up from a size AU 12 to a AU 14/16 and have gained about 15kg. He is fit, but is also lucky that he never has to watch what he eats as he doesn't...

Zms88

Xper 2 Age: 38

Other

Social Anxiety / Social Awkwardness Help?

I'm 15, incredibly awkward, and 99.999% sure I've got social anxiety. I do. I'm pretty sure I'd know. Sometimes I get uncomfortable around people I've known my whole life. It sucks. It's stupid. And I know it is. I've...

heyimawkward

Xper 4 Age: 25

Other

Confidence may cost me my job?

Hi, I've always suffered from low self esteem and I desperately need to improve it. It's always effected my love life, by stopping me from having one at all. It's never stopped me having friends, but has perhaps caused...

DBsufc15

Xper 5 Age: 31

How Do I Look?

Would working out be good for a person with low self-esteem/confidence?

I'm wondering if all the good chemicals exercise gets your brain to release would be good for something like low self-esteem because I have a really negative view of myself

Anonymous

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Dating

Are you turned off by virgins and/or guys who haven't had sex in the better part of a decade?

I have only ever had 2 partners my entire life, and my last one was a decade ago. Yeah... 10 year dry spell. Is that a turnoff? I imagine you're probably wondering why I've been alone so long. Because I was getting 2...

AlienIshboo

Xper 5 Age: 39

Family & Friends

If you say something with confidence, do you think anyone will believe IN you?

I don't mean believe youa sin you're telling a lie. I mean believe IN you, as in, this girl's clearly someone who knows who she is and what she's talking about. I developed low self-esteem as a consequence of...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Why does he pick these type of females over me and then later on come back and try to apologize? Should I keep ignoring him or should I take him back?

My ex boyfriend has recently tried to contact me, but I have been ignoring him. The last time we spoke it was a huge argument about him being controlling and unfaithful. He has put me through a lot which still hurts. I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Other

A Random Retelling of My 2016 (POLL inside)

Warning: This will probably be a very low quality piece. I'm feeling especially emotional, and this site is sort of an outlet for me to get out those emotions on occasion. I'll be sharing a personal experience, and it...

Anonymous

(25-29)

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Dating

Girls, would you rather date a smart guy with low self-esteem or a not-so-smart guy gushing with confidence?

I ask this because I consider myself a decently intelligent guy. I do very well in my college courses, and research novel antipsychotic drugs with a professor on campus. I also tutor German (which I am nearly fluent in),...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I ask this because I consider myself a decently intelligent guy. I do very well in my college courses, and research novel antipsychotic drugs with a professor on campus. I also tutor

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Flirting

Guys, Why would you let low confidence stop you from being with a girl?

I am pretty sure this guy likes me. However... when he is talking to me... he looks away from me and is looking around... not keeping eye contact. At first I thought he was afraid of me. Now I think it is because he is...

Anonymous

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Girl's Behavior

How do I go from "friendly therapist" to "potential date/boyfriend" with this girl I know?

So I act like this therapist for a troubled girl and she seems to agree with everything I say but I want to upgrade my status from "therapist" to potential dating partner or even, in the future, boyfriend. I mean I'm...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girl's Behavior

How can I stop the negative self-talk and be the confident and more attractive version of myself?

So I'm 18 years old and I've just finished high school and I'm about to start university this year. However, I seem to still be dealing with all these confidence issues which plagued my high school experience in terms of...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

"It's a Paradox, is it not?" A Question of Love Versus Love

Confidence, Alpha-ness, Dominance, Leadership, Personality Strength, Presence, Charisma... If you're gonna slice it one way, you're gonna have to do so every other way. It goes by many names and I'm sure you get the...

Anonymous

(25-29)

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Relationships

Finding Love this New Year

Believe me, love is a beautiful thing, nothing can be compared to it. Love can take you unimaginable heights. Just as I mentioned in my earlier mytake, when it comes to relationships attraction plays a great part. Have...

akanetuk

Editor Age: 45

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Holidays

10 New Years Resolutions That Will Make Your New Year Memorable

Aren't you excited about 2017? I know i am and there are a lots of goals that i need to accomplish when the New year arrives. Growing up, I've always heard people say " New Year, New Me" but are they actually sticking to...

Princesslee16

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Flirting

Girls, have you ever been negged?

Negging Low-grade insults meant to undermine the self-confidence of a woman so she might be more vulnerable to your advances. The dude says something negative about your looks to try to lower your social value so he can...

LittleSally

Editor Age: 37

Negging Low-grade insults meant to undermine the self-confidence of a woman so she might be more vulnerable to your advances. The dude says something negative about your looks to try

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Health & Fitness

Pic included. How to be confident?

I am a full time student , who works. However , lately my perspective of my body has been bothering me. I always thought I was healthy , although I'm not consider skinny. Lately , people , even close friends and family...

Anonymous

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Dating

I sent him a friend request yesterday and he didn't accept it yet. He didn't ignore it either. What does it mean?

I am an extremely shy girl with a low self-confidence. It was so hard for me to find the courage and finally send him that friend request. Some people in school told me that he likes me, but I'm not sure if I should...

Dannnnnny

Xper 4 Age: 25