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I find that most people (including myself) are shallow to some point or another. Some more than others. I personally hate when girls say the phrase "Looks don't really matter, I just want a nice guy" or some variation of that. When I hear that, I not sure whether to believe them or not.

When you go on dating sites, it seems like if you don't look attractive enough to a person (whether you are a guy or girl) you will have little to no luck when it comes to getting a date (or even a response) even though you and the person you like have a lot of things in common.

There is a YouTuber called Connor Murphy. In my opinion he has very cringe worthy videos. (Watch one if you haven't already). I use to see some of his videos (I no longer watch them) and it honestly makes me want to give up on finding "true love " or "the one". Especially in my generation/age range.

I am curious on other people's take on this so feel free to share your opinion.

My current girlfriend is too nice. I’m trying to give her patient advice that she doesn’t need to apologize or bend over backwards all the time. I’m telling her to speak up if she doesn’t like something (tactfully). Being a former nice guy myself I understand why she acts this way. It comes from a domineering parents, some genetic influence and the desire to fit in.

Admittedly her being too nice can be annoying at times. But I’m done with bitches period. I’m going to stay with her and work it out.

But I can’t help wonder if the roles were reversed than I would have been taken advantage of, rejected and/or friendzoned a long long time ago.

in my opinion women will always be worse at this than men.

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Today at 18:30 after school, I walked out of school with my backpack on, wearing dark jeans, white battlescarred shoes, and a metal-band-t-shirt while it was about +6°c. My hair was kinda nice too.
Now the story begins:
I strolled down to the parkinglot with the intention to cross it.
20 meters in front me I saw a group of 8 common, pretty, white, girls walking from said parkinglot. They walked up a long staircase that headed in a direction so that we could see eachothers clearly over the railing.
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They were halfway up the staircase and I was walking paralelly away from them and threw a second glance/look at them, just because they were pretty grills.
Then one of the cute girls in the middle of them looked back at me too, like she would've looked at me even if I hadn't looked first. (I'm very good at reading people so I know this is true)
Then she stopped and turned to face me, and gave me a silly nice wave with her left hand while smiling.
I was already smiling before that. I stopped and faced her and waved back at her. It was nice, funny, and silly.
Then she blew me a kiss. I blew one back.
"What's your name!"
"*my name*!"
Something something insignificant I can't remember, but she didn't say anything more.
She waved and continued walking and so did I.

We both smiled at eachothers the whole time, and I didn't notice any of the girls giggling. Could she be attracted to me, did she pity me and wanted to give me some love, or was she just fucking with me? She might pity me because she might have noticed that I'm always alone (but never sad. I'm proud and happy and all that good stuff). She might be fucking with me for amusement. And she might be attracted to me because I am kinda goodlooking. Escecially at a little distance lol ;)

Girls, I would love to hear your honest opinions.