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You are a beautiful girl and you know this, not because you're conceited, but because you are reminded by others often, perhaps even approached by a lot of guys. If this happens to you a lot than answer the following.

Do you get sick of guys asking you out in public because so many scumbags, perverts , creeps, or aggressive men have made it to where you already built to say no, hurting every guys chances of getting your number. In other words, are chances low for a guy to succeed on some level because too many bad experiences made the idea of approaching girls, not ideal anymore and results in not even wanting to be asked out, in general? Or is it still okay to try? Would you rather be asked I'm person in public, or in your social media inbox? Neither?

If you do not mind being approached, obviously in an appropriate way what is the best way to do it?

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I created this approach to test on the field:

"the low risk low reward"

Which is basically the following steps 1. Approaching someone out of their league 2. confessing attraction 3. Immediately admitting he knows his chances are slim to none 4. Explaining his goal: which is not exactly to acquire your phone number or Ig but to learn and cushion the rejection, the attempt was experimental, to gain experience, tips for future attempts with other women.
The guy who approaches believes if he could survive, gain experience, and be able say friends he legitimately asked the hottest girl out, the attempt would be a success just from the Knowledge and experience alone
5. Wait for response (saying all that shit before she can say no.) this approach was formally called " the Shoot yourself in the foot "

before answering, would this nullify the confidence level that women are drawn to? or would you respect his attempt in trying to approach women in kind fashion and wish him luck, is it weird to bein friend, non romantic

How do I ask a girl out who is really attractive and be able to continue?

I hate rude, authoritarian people.

ESPECIALLY MY S. D.

OASN.. Whenever my brother tries to adjust his shorts his dad (my stepdad) yells and says, "HEY! WHAT DID I TELL YOU ABOUT ADJUSTING YOURSELF?" while obviously and glaringly staring at his penis. Even when he moves to get something his dad gets fucking triggered. Always forcing him to wear something to CONFORM to his way of thinking AND public society. (We get it, all this "nerd/fat/loser" crap.. my dad kinda did the same thing to me but I was much older...14-17.. obviously more mature.. and he was NOT even HALF this obvious.)

"Oh it's MY son I can do what I want" IT DOESN'T MATTER. Ask yourself if you would do it to ANOTHER PARENT'S KID. If the answer is no, you and EVERY OTHER FUCKING PARENT IN THIS GODDAMN WORLD of nearly 8 billion people need MANDATORY physological evaluation every 6 months, hell maybe even 3 months. He obviously needs rehab.

My stepdad was fired from his job in 2015 and my mom claimed that he was taking some meds as part of his yelling. I checked his record and it is horrible as shitt he was even sued four times. My step dad claims to be for equality and Liberty and all this crap, and brings his fucking evangelical armenian dad in regards to being "for all that", but the real thinking about him is Mental.. he was actually fired for calling his black co-worker a "stupid ass monkey/fucking n**" and saying that he needs to be lynched.. but since my mom is a fukkking enabler she likes to twist the truth.

My step-dad is obsessed with this whole food sharing crap. Assuming all the food has no name labels ESPECIALLY something as fucking little as subway sandwiches.. GD.. Whenever I try to take a piece for lunch or dinner he gets upset with the happy emotion and says something similar to "well you should have asked me or your mom.." (not exact words.. just what it implied) complete fuking frat boy RETARD. The hell do women marry be stupid Frat Boys in the f** first place.

My stepdad is being an idiot AGAIN.. he doesn't like me around him and treats me like dirt. He pretends to be nice and all but uses "positive" words under a negative tone to hide his fueled narcissism. After walking 3 laps around the block for 2.5 hours, I went and threw out the trash without wearing a glove or mask, and I didn't know he or my mom would be downstairs.

My stepdad said to go wash my hands, and I was just going to do it in my room upstairs so I could change my shirt and possibly take a shower. Then he forced me to wash downstairs because he thinks I can't be in my room without washing my hands in the bathroom downstairs. I told him we've been doing this before the coronavirus and it makes no difference. I told him to STOP watching the news and he went mute.

After having some watermelon I watched my brother play, I would say I love you to my stepdad and he got kinda offended, he said what? I feel like my stepdad really, really hates me and is only around because of my mom. He said Im YoUR fAtHeR fIgUrE Im TrYiNg To Be NiCe GeT ThOse NeGatIve ThoUghTs OuT Of YoUR MiNd like he is trying to SHAME ME.

There is literally nothing in the law or constitution that says people can't criticize others' acts. I did just that while I was minding MY OWN business and he literally overbears me and says he doesn't. What is wrong with him 🤦‍♂️ he thinks I get defensive and offended but HE is the one of all that

My stepdad DOES have a history of being a giant CREEP. 10 years ago when I was just a child I was in trouble and he threatened to take away ALL my clothes except my white underwear. Biggest reason why I hate him to this day. There were worse situations but this is the one.

First of all, I'm not much of a talker. And she ain't either. We both understood that when we started the relationship and was comfortable with it.
But after 3 months into our relationship, the lockdown started and then we had to stick to texting and rare video calls.


I used to find topics to talk about, but now, even I'm having a hard time making a conversation with her. And now, i feel kike she's bored too. Coz she was the one that always used to text and video call me first.
But now, she texts and dissapears, then comes back at midnight and then we talk non continuosly till 2am or something.
I even noticed that there isn't video calling anymore. Especially no I love you or i miss you.
I understand that she's not that kinda girl, but the thing is, she used to say all those things, and now when she suddenly stopped saying it, I don't know... Feel so sad thinking bout it. I talked to her bout it and she said it's nothing like you think. Just coz i don't say those things, doesn't mean I don't love you and all.
But for some reason, it's a bit hard. And I can't make her say those words or anything.

We have fights here and there, coz we are both short tempered and things explode. Is that why things are dull? Is she keeping a safe distance from me and not talking much, so that she can get back to normal?

Is this normal in a relationship?
What have you guys done to tackle such instances?