Search Results: being friends with an ex

If a guy waits to tell his friends with benefits that he loves her after 2 years, does he mean it?

My friends with benefits is also my ex. We dated 12 years ago. I told him I loved him 6 months into the friends with benefits but he said he didn’t love me but cared about me a lot. Due to me having emotional troubles...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why would an ex create an account to stalk me?

So I’m at least 99.8% sure my ex or her friend created a fake account and stalked me on. As soon as I noticed the account with 0 posts 0 followers and following 0 I knew it was a stalker and I messaged them, never heard...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Am I a terrible person?

When I was in high school, I was with an emotionally abusive boyfriend for four years along with. This really messed me up and made mental decisions hard. I ended up going out with a guy I wasn't even sure about a few...

Anonymous

(18-24)

My friends with benefits said I love you after 2 years?

Just want some opinions, I’ve been in a 2 year friends with benefits relationship with my ex from 13 years ago. I told him I loved him 6 months into the relationship but he said that he cared a lot about me but he wasn’t...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys, I had a man break up with me because he's too "insecure". Was that the truth or was that a subtle way of saying he's just not that into me?

I was seeing a guy for about 2 months. He expressed how insecure he was, and showed bad jealousy over my daughter's father. Over that course, he showed all the sign he was falling in love. Kissing and cuddling after sex,...

Chan6395

Xper 2 Age: 31

What do I do about my boyfriend’s ex?

After hanging out with my boyfriend we went back to his place. On the car ride back, his ex girl friend called him and he ignored it. Then we got back to his place and we did the deed. He then went to his car and gave his...

PiinkFalls

Xper 4 Age: 26

Dating

He was talking to an ex for the first 7 months of our relationship, I caught him out, he stopped but I can't get past it. Any advice?

I was so happy in love with a new relationship of 7 months but he was up and down about if he wanted a serious relationship until one day he said he wants me for life. Meanwhile the entire time he was picture swapping and...

Belleevans

Xper 5 Age: 44

My best friend is giving me an ultimatum?

I have a boyfriend/ now ex as of yesterday, who i had really strong feelings for. We’ve been through a lot of problems but we were so close. We would do everything together and we would be so happy. I really see a life...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why did my ex call me an attention seeker?

In all honesty, I do pay attention to my exes reaction to the things I post. I usually avoid posting things that obviously expose what my love life is like. I share inspirational quotes and stuff and he never says...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How can I end this friends with benefits relationship without ruining our friendship (especially since we’ve both caught feelings for each other)?

So I’ve been friends with benefits with this guy for almost two years now and we’ve both just recently confessed that we indeed have feelings for each other. Nothing’s changed tho, and I like everything being the way it...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Does male best friend have a crush on me?

I've never been able to tell and I'm not interested in him in that way I'd be lying if I haven't found attractive at times before I met my boyfriend but I just can't see myself with him at all plus I have a great...

Puppystarfish23

Yoda Age: 28

Girl's Behavior

Why does my ex not want to talk to me?

I dated my ex for almost 3 years and it wasn’t the best relationship but wasn’t bad either. it was a bit of a distance between us, a little over an hour and because of our busy schedules we only got together a couple...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Would I be an a-hole if I left an Anonymous message to a guy telling him to check his girls phone?

So I know this girls ex, in fact I love him. He's a very close friend of mine and we also have romantic history. she's had a past of cheating on him by sleeping with other men and then kissing another old friend. He...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Should I accept a friend request on social media from an ex?

My ex and I met about 4-5 years ago when he sat in front of me during our high school graduation by staring at me but we never spoke. Then the following summer, we had gotten the same job. We started interacting with each...

Anonymous

(25-29)

My ex and I met about 4-5 years ago when he sat in front of me during our high school graduation by staring at me but we never spoke. Then the following summer, we had gotten the same

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Why did My guy friend lie about his instagram?

So I have a guy friend I met about 6 months ago, but we’ve become really really good friends and stay up almost every night talking until 2am. We talk about literally everything. I had already checked if he had an Insta...

Anonymous

(18-24)

How do you move on from an abusive ex?

My ex was arrested and is being charged for abuse. He isn't allowed to talk to me etc. He hasn't attempted to contact me but he will watch my Instagram etc. I am just so angry at him for what he has done to me. I feel...

Magosmall06

Xper 6 Age: 28

What do I say to an ex who is texting and flirting again but not asking me out? He dumped me and now dances around doing things together but not?

I'm really struggling. I was in what I thought was a great relationship for 4 months. We spent tons of time together, had fun... the only negative was he didn't seem to deal with conflict well. He said we shouldn't even...

AlisaSDakota

Xper 1 Age: 43

10 Warning Signs of a Toxic Partner

Sometimes people whom we think would be the perfect match for us don't end up being so. They become toxic, and toxic people are not worth your time. This take is written in a male point of view. One reason is because...

Kontrvnote

Xper 5 Age: 29

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