I was seeing a guy for about 2 months. He expressed how insecure he was, and showed bad jealousy over my daughter's father. Over that course, he showed all the sign he was falling in love. Kissing and cuddling after sex, buying all kinds of gifts, spending every free moment he had with me. Then out of the blue he asks if what he have is "lust or love"? He then says maybe we should just be friends.. I reply with "if that's what you want" as to which he replies, "no, but I don't know what to do". Then like 20 mins later says we shouldn't be friends and to just forget about each other. Well, then I take some of his things to his car one day while he's at work and I leave him his favorite meal with a note that says, "showing you I still care, and I miss you". we start talking again, and I start being more affectionate, and doing more lovey things. Then he did it again because I brought how stupid my daughter's father is and he ends things again. I try a second time because maybe he's just that insecure, and this time we get some dinner and make plans the next day to see a movie, the next day comes and he completely bails on me. 3 days later he texts me saying his ex got into a bad accident and he's been spending some time with her. He asks to still be friends and he still wants to talk and hangout. Well I tell him no, he just needs to keep tending to her. He replies with "I'm sorry". A month goes by, I decide to text him saying, "I feel kind of stupid, we weren't even together so you didn't owe me any loyalty. I hope we can be friends again one day". He says yes we can still be friends and asks me how I've been. I took a little while to reply (4 hours) to not seem too available, but after I reply he doesn't say anything back. A few days pass and I texted him saying he found something of his at my house and that I'm dropping it off at his house while he's at work. We text about 4 times about an old friend of ours that passed away but then nothing. What gives?
Guys, I had a man break up with me because he's too "insecure". Was that the truth or was that a subtle way of saying he's just not that into me?
