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Noticed a guy checking me out several times and dared to smile at him once from afar. From then on he seemed to develop a little crush on me but never tried to pursue me. Now years later I see him crushing on other female strangers but for them he tries to flex his possessions and try out new clothing styles and in general just to look his best (he doesn’t approach them though). Why didn’t he try for me? Is he embarrassed to like me? Does he consider me low hanging fruit?

I recently texted a bit with him and he at first acted like he didn’t know who I was (doubtful). Until I confessed my crush to him he was really friendly and responding immediately. After that he was acting quite arrogant and he denied he ever had any interest in me and was even slightly rude about it.

His friend told me that he was really into me for years. He would sneak glances when I was distracted but never found the courage to come up and talk to me. Months later he met a girl in a lecture in college (which I also attended) that started flirting with him and he confidently flirted back. From then on he started dressing nicer to this lecture. Why didn’t he ever put in the effort for me if he had a crush on me for years?

So I have explained the before in my past posts, I went to this breakfast thing at our local public high school. We go to private school. About halfway through dinner my crush his sister and her friend decided to show up. His sister and her friend went up to me and said, why don’t you go talk to him he is right there. Of course I was embarrassed, but they got him to go to this hallway. He started running around the halls and he doesn’t know this place at all. He came back eventually and his sister and her friend left to go back to the lunchroom. These girls who are a few years younger than us came and got into all of this. One of them talked to him for a minute but he wouldn’t talk to her unless I was gone, so I went around the corner. The girls left and we talked a little bit. He eventually said I know you like me but I can’t see us together. Ik it sounds bad but there’s more. So he left the hallway and I guess he talked to his sis for a sec. His sister, her friend, and those girls came into the hallway. His sister said forget everything he just said wait on him he will come around. He really does like you he talks about you all the time. He says how your pretty etc. He never says anything bad about you. The reason he said that was because he can’t date or like anyone because of his grades rn. The girl who talked to him earlier said that he said he likes me and stuff too. I’m really confused what should I do.

He knows that I like him and he used to like me too but we never dated. Now that he found himself a girlfriend whenever I look at him he looks away on purpose and seems tense and uncomfortable. He also unfollowed some of his former crushes he used to admire for years on instagram. Why does he do this? Does he only do it for his girlfriend? Or does he do it to avoid temptation? Or is it the opposite and he is completely over them?

Have been slightly flirting with my stranger crush for years (just smiling and looking from afar) but nothing ever happened. Recently he has started staring at me very blatantly and he doesn’t even look away when caught. I found out that he just entered a relationship with a girl he went on vacation with and they lost pictures of themselves together on social media frequently. I feel like he still wants to talk and get to know me but why if he has a fresh relationship? And don’t tell me he just wants to be friends, he is not that kind of guy

My crush made a romantic playlist for me (he named it after me and was trying to get my attention at the time) a year ago but never shared it with me. He soon made the playlist private and now one year later he just deleted it. I still see him weekly in a lecture and he does glance at me at the beginning of the lecture when he thinks I don’t notice. Why did he make an effort to delete it? He rarely deletes any of his playlists. And yeah I know it’s kind of creepy that I monitor his Spotify activities but I’ve never been so drawn to anyone like to him.

Hey, so I have a huge crush on a male coworker. We are quite close at work and we flirt together. However, we are not in a position to date each other.

I saw him the other weekend and we were both a little drunk. I ended up telling him how I felt about him. I asked him if he liked me back and he said “you’re a lovely person”. I kept asking him, and he kept saying that I’m lovely. Eventually, he said “yes I do, but we can’t be together” and then we had a couple of quick kisses on the lips.

Since then, he’s been awkward around me at work. There is a stark contrast between how he was before and how he is now. He says that everything’s fine and our friendship is unaffected. He even said he didn’t remember what happened, even though I text him the next day apologising and he said it was fine.

Every time I’ve seen him outside of work and we’ve had a few drinks, he’s always been very huggy and has even nuzzled into my hair.

At work, he is hot and cold. He used to stare at me a lot but now he seems to avoid eye contact. And when we have lunch, he used to sit beside me or opposite me. But now he either sits by me but moves his chair further down the table or he sits diagonally opposite me.

I’ve noticed he does still joke with me and his voice goes soft if it’s just us two. Why is he being like this? Does he have feelings for me?