So my crush is from my building I know him since long time we were good friends but now we are friends but I don't know much about him, So there's this girl whom I walk with usually since a few months she told me that she is like a sister to my crush, even though I didn't let her know anything and one day we were just talking randomly about other guys from our vicinity so I took my crush's name too and I told her that I have heard a girl saying that he is player but honestly from my experience this guy is such a shy introvert and literally does funny things and in front of me gets so nervous while talking randomly, so she was like no no you heard wrong he is a good person and he is not that type and after few days we were talking randomly and I kinda told her the name and she flipped she was like I know you also well and he is like my brother so I won't hide anything and she was like he is a player, emotionless, heartless, fling kinda guy you think he is good but honestly don't go near him you will be hurt and even if you confess him he might make fun of you and you will become a joke, he won't even say yes or no he won't even meet outside to talk to you and all things and then next day again she was like he is not that bad he respects consent and he was in serious relationship too but you are too good for him and then again but he is so flirty sweet talker. I mean she keeps changing sides and what I noticed was she said he is like brother, family friends so that day when we were taking my crush's parents came there and they smiled at me as usual but she being a family friend didn't even great them not smiled I think that's fishy.. and then she was like your crush is out of town now but he didn't said her that even though they met the same day and I remember I had casually said hi to my crush and he kinda told me everything where he is going and why , what he will wear everything so I am really skeptical to trust this girl.
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I am confused can someone help me So the thing is I heard something about my crush from this girl who kinda confused my perception about him now?
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Based on what you wrote it sounds like she is totally into him and are telling you things to throw you off from approaching him. Play along with her and get the courage to approach the guy before she does it or worse backbites about you to him. Also watch your back from so called "friends" of such.
Thank you for your advice I also thought the same and you know what she was like no matter what don't let the guy know that I told you all this about him so I guess I shouldn't reveal my personal life with her and maintain a healthy distance..
Don't just cut her off or move along, slowly do that, because it can backfire with her backbiting about you to the guy or even others. Make her believe you got her back whilst slowly doing your thing with the guy and as you mentioned maintaining a healthy distance.
Best of luck to you and hope you score with the guy ;)