Why does this guy who used to like me now avoid looking my way?

[Anonymous]

He had a crush on me for about a year and all of his friends knew about it. He kept glancing at me from afar despite being in a relationship for months and following my friends on Instagram. Now he suddenly stopped and when I look in his direction from afar he can tell and looks away on purpose and seems slightly uncomfortable or nervous. He also unfollowed me and my friends on Instagram. What’s his problem? Why is he trying to forget me?

[serious]

Well the answer in your question and your subject itself. You mentioned it clearly that he had a crush on you despite him being in a relationship and now his behavior has changed so it is possible that he realized that what he is doing is wrong and he should not be having crushes on you while in a relationship and what he is doing is his way of handling things.

Yes I am sure he is trying to forget you

[Anonymous]

There could be a variety of reasons for his behavior. He might feel guilty about still having feelings for you while being in a relationship, or he might have realized that maintaining those feelings isn't healthy for him or his current relationship. It's also possible that he's trying to distance himself from you to avoid any temptation or potential complications. Ultimately, his motivations are known only to him, so it's challenging to determine his exact reasoning without directly asking him.

[spartan55]

"What's his problem"... you are just going to ignore the fact that he has girlfriend?

[laly520]

he has a girlfriend