Why does this guy keep looking at me?

[Anonymous]

disclaimer: I'm in college, not high school. So in my math class, while we were taking a test I notice that this guy, who is seated on the row next to me, 2 seats up...kept glancing over his shoulder to look at me WHILE the whole class was taking a test. Like, the NERVE he gets to even look at me when we are all test talking...its so weird. He should concentrate on getting his test done instead. and no, he wasn't done with his test. And he would constantly do it almost every few seconds. He's really cute though, but he's not my type so I couldn't see myself having a crush on him in the first place. at one point I looked back and he looked away. I didn't usually look back but I still could feel he was looking at me. After we were all done with the test, while the teacher was lecturing he was now seated one seat back so now he's closer to me (I don't think its because of me,its because he wanted to be closer to his friend and the seating arrangement for the test changed). moments later, I hear his iphone camera picture taking click sound...and I look and see that he has the front facing camera on. So I guess that he was trying to sneak a picture of me. but then I thought maybe he was taking a selfie? but no, because guys don't take selfies in class unless they're gay(no offense)...girls do. Then a few moments later I glance at his phone and see he is on Snapchat. then I thought 'aha! maybe he was taking a pic of me'...to send it to his friend(s) on snapchat. Because it would be really weird if he takes a regular pic and saves it in his iphone album. unless...do guys take snapchat selfies? if you're a guy and use snapchat, please confirm. And before the whole classroom incidents occured, earlier during the day I go wait in line to buy this book at the bookstore..and he was waiting in line in front of me...after he noticed me walking up in back of him, he got nervous and walked forward in the line..and as I got a little closer to him he inched forward a little more. LOL. I tried not to look at him so I don't make him more nervous. I think this just has to do with that thing where you see someone from class/school in public and you want to avoid them even though you don't personally know them..that kind of thing. happens to me all the time. but anyways, any thoughts? he either a) finds me attractive b) finds me interesting c)finds me intimidating d) finds me weird d) all of the above e) he does it for no reason. I can't see him having a crush on me/liking me because I don't even think I'm his type either. but you never know. oh and he doesn't smile when looks at me and it only the first week of class..so this is new. Don't know whether I should be flattered or creeped out. But I probably am flattered since he's really cute.

[Hans222]

Hello there... if he constantly looks at you he probably finds you attractive.

Probably it's best to stop neglecting him, and simply find a chance to speak to him alone.

If you find it OK for him to like you but not to love you, it's wise to tell him. He may appreciate the contact and know how far he can (not) let his fantasy go.

Much better than him being completely crazy about you and than running head first against a wall.

And perhaps ask him about the picture...

[Asker]

sadly I dropped the class... kind of regret it ;( I dropped it mainly It was a winter class so its harder that a regular semester math class

[Hans222]

Do you know his name? Could be possible to find him... you would be surprised what can happen if you enter someone's name in some internet search engines.

Imagine you find an e-mail address and want to take contact, you could open a new e-mail address dedicated to the purpose. If the contact isn't to nice as you had hoped for, you ditch the e-mail address and you're gone.

[Asker]

YES I do. I already checked out his instagram and twitter...and Facebook. But adding/following him? I find that to be a little creepy. or that email thing...I feel like the best way is to befriend the guy first in class, in person...then contact them through the internet. I don't want to be a stalker...ya kno

[Asker]

and why would I ask him about the picture? it would scare him away lol

[Hans222]

Don't know... as long as you do it with a smile... but I'm not the expert. I would wait and see how nice the discussion was and make a joke about it if it would feel appropriate.

Of course, you know him better than I... make a wise decision!

[rajangeek]

we do like to look at girls not in a way to make you feel uncomfortable or freaked out , we are just attracted to the opposite gender , may be you are beautiful and so he feel it that way and he is glancing at you , first do is if you know him go and talk to him straight a way about how you feel, if he really find you interesting he may say something about it

[Asker]

I don't know him personally, no.

[romanticpeanut]

I'm going with a)

Also you're last two sentences sum up mens dating experience. If you act weird and you're hot you're "cute". If you act weird and you're ugly you're a "creep".

[romanticpeanut]

Because he was in the row next to you - not some other pretty girl.

[Asker]

sad thing is I'm most likely going to drop that class...today since its the last day to drop. It would be cool to stay so I can see observe what he does next and stuff. since its a winter class and the material is condensed people are recommending that I do. But now I don't know what to do I want to drop out but I also wanna stay UGH...advice?

[romanticpeanut]

If you're interested in him just be forward about it, what have you got to lose?

[Asker]

I'm talking about whether or not I should drop the class..

[romanticpeanut]

Well, if you only want to stay because of him then drop the class.

[YoungAthleticOne]

Haha, he's not a creep if he's "cute".

[Asker]

ok that answer did not help. yeah yeah I know he's not a creep. but could you answer my question please? I'm not getting that many answers

[YoungAthleticOne]

Well to answer your question its 100% obvious that he likes you. But, why does it matter? You said he's not your type, yet you come on this website writing a big paragraph about the incident with him. . .so do you like him or not?

[Asker]

well what I mean by 'not my type' is that he is blue eyed and dirty blonde while I'm a brown eyed brunette. And he's like my height and I'm pretty short lol. This is all new he can't just like me right away...I wrote a big paragraph because it was an interesting situation and It got me very curious. And I love to write and use details in general. and no, I don't think I like him. It's also to early too tell. I'm probably going to drop the class anyways so I'm not gonna see him anymore

[YoungAthleticOne]

Thats just weird. Write a big paragraph online about a nigga you don't like. Girls are funny.

[Asker]

I'm interested in him, but I don't like him. What's weird is that you African Americans use the word 'nigga' all the time but when others call you a 'nigga' you get offended

[YoungAthleticOne]

I don't get offended. "Im interested in him, but I don't like him". I'm honestly not trying to be disrespectful, but c'mon, that is just stupid.

[Asker]

what different does it make anyways? That's really not the point

[YoungAthleticOne]

Its because who thinks like that? lol. "Im interested in that college, but I don't like it"." I like that chick right there, but fuck her." lol your contradicting yourself. Hard to take you seriously when you did that.

[Asker]

im trying not to like him...I don't need to keep that on my chest because it'll distract from my studies.