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There are a group of people (mostly women) who get off on the idea of people showering them with attention. So let's look at case of women since most of them seem to be within that group:

1. A lot of them will give a guy their number, and string him along with false hope that she's interested in him. Many of them will flake on dates but make up an excuse as to why so the guy stays hooked until he get frustrated and give up.

2. Many of them are very narcissistic and get joys out of rejecting good looking guys just so they can brag about it. In fact Mia Khalifa is a good example of such a woman. She rejects Drake advances and then decides to post his text conversation with her on twitter so people can see.

3. Many women will give all the signals and make a guy take the risk of approaching her only to humiliate him once he plays his hand of interest that she is not interested in him like that.

4. Some girls even go so far as to humiliate men who try to act flirty with them over text and either show it to their friends for a good laugh or post it on the internet so people can make fun of them.

With all that being said it's a wonder why young men are still approaching women today when they have to go through such mind field of possibly being screwed over. And this also hurt women too because the girls who genuinely want a date/relationship will have a harder time guys approaching and not thinking she is stringing him along also. No wonder men these days have a short patient to take things slow and want sex fast because they think we are playing them if we don't drop our panties immediately.

Tinder guy and I matched. He messaged first about hanging out. He's in my town for business and will be here until Friday. We hung out. He didn't do anything sexual-- just fun and me showing him around the city. He was crude though. Open about his past sexual escapades and how he will talk with other girls he matched with. I was indifferent about it. Didn't care. After hanging out he would text me everyday saying lets hang out or ear here. I'm like ok but he never finalizes things. He keeps changing his mind about what events. Examples: i might play pool in my hotel, wanna come play? I say I guess and he doesn't reply. Next day want to go see a show. I'm thinking Wednesday or Thursday. Keep my sure Wednesday's ok with me. That same night he states he took a nap and he's tired. He asks me if I want to do breakfast the next morning. I try planning but he doesn't finalize. Next day he replies I found the breakfast place. Want to see a show on Thursday. I got annoyed and I replied cool! Well I'm going out of town and I won't be here remaining days. It was nice to meet you, have a safe trip back. He replies "lol 😒"

Is that rude? I kinda take it as such because I drove him around and etc. I kinda want to reply and say: That's pretty rude 😅. i guess New Yorkers are mean like they say. (He's from New York) lol

I felt like he flaked so much and kept changing his mind and pushing me back so he could hang out with other girls. He was very attractive by the way. But I wasn't feeling him like that. I want to make friends and network. We didn't even exchange face books. He works for a nice company in my field of work I'm trying to get my foot in. He's coming back in June. What should I do?