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Search Results: main thing you look for in a guy
Guys, Very short story. Should I text him?
Hi, so about a year ago I kind of had a thing with this guy. We texted but never went out. As months kept passing we occasionally talked but just like friends, although sometimes he would tell me things like that I was...
Anonymous
(30-35) Arguments Against Romance Novels And Why They Are Stupid
https://twitter.com/sarahmaclean/status/700716177702649856 Sarah Maclean posted this on twitter and it is glorious. I will proceed most carefully. Romance writers and fellow romance readers please don't kill if I screw...
Valkyrie1
Xper 7 Age: 32 Would have committed suicide if?
Last year in June something terrible happened with me which wrecked and disrupted my life. I was mentally tortured and I wanted to end my life. I had suicidal thoughts, anxiety and severe panic attacks. I couldn't live...
Anonymous
(36-45) Girls, Main thing you look for in a guy, poll?
Like when seeking a boyfriend/husband. By brutally honest :)
Anonymous
(30-35) (Picture in profile pic!) Rate my body?
Sick of being insecure of my body. I've never been insecure about my face because that's the main thing that most guys are attracted to, at least for me. My main insecurities are my small boobs (33b). I know they are...
sweety92
Xper 5 Age: 31 5 Good Horror Movies To Watch
I have never liked watching movies much, but in the rare times that I do watch movies, I always watch the horror genre. I have always liked horror ever since I was young, I thought that it was more exciting and made you...
Remembermyname4
Xper 6 Age: 34 A Lesson in Makeup … For MEN! Part I
If you all remember my controversial take Dating & Makeup – False Advertisement or Not? then you’ll know that I feel strongly that makeup is a representation of style and a highlighter for natural aspects of beauty (if...
10 American Bands that are more successful in other countries than they are in their homeland
Second part, of myTake 10 Bands, Known In Many Countries But Failed To Make It In America . This time I'll focus mainly on American bands, who might've been popular by some degree in America (or even not popular at all),...
Anonymous
(30-35) What reasons are there for some girls to not get hit on by guys as much as others?
I have a friend who looks like me enough for some people to have mistaken us for sisters, the main differences just being that I'm dark skinned and she's lighter, we're both skinny with nice boobs but she's taller. We...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why Video Games (Especially RPG Genre) Do More Bad Than Good In The Long Run
First of all, I'm not a saint either. I play video-games since I was 7. I also used to read many comic books. But a 7 year old doesn't have many options, so gaming is a good hobby at this age. A bad hobby for ages 14 or...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why do some people get enjoyment out of hurting other people's feelings?
It seems like some people actually enjoy making others upset. For instance, whenever I see my friends younger siblings they like to be bitchy to me and tell me how ugly I am. I mean, I know I'm not great looking, but I...
Anonymous
(25-29) Passiveness In Dating & Why It Doesn't Work
I see it all the time. Women asking question after question on here about dating and relationships, wondering what they're doing wrong. Why no guys are approaching them. Asking others on here if they're pretty enough, or...
Anonymous
(30-35) He acts really weird around me?
So, there's this guy i've liked for way too long now. He's quite popular and he's just really outgoing, funny and weird. He rambles on about stuff when he talks to people and doesn't shut up. he's one of those guys....
Anonymous
(25-29) The "I Don't Owe You, You Don't Owe Me" Game
Many guys will complain that they are virgins, sexually frustrated, that women are manipulative and won't sleep with them or date them if they don't have a high level of confidence, that they are expected to approach...
the_rake
Editor Age: 34 Should I be open about my juvenile record?
Would you tell your bf/gf that you had a juvenile record? I have 2 felonies and 1 misdemeanor. My last charge was when I was 13 and I went to jail for about 2 years, it was a situation with a teacher. I wasn't sentenced...
Anonymous
(30-35) Is my male roommate into me?
I've been living with this guy for over half a year now. We became really close and hang out together literally every day for a couple of hours, watching tv, cuddling on the couch, wrestling, talking,.. He has called me...
Anonymous
(30-35) My Take On Objectification In Advertising
I hear some feminists complain about advertising and how women are beeing objectified and it's the most terrible thing ever even though there's tons of ads where the same thing is done with guys but whatever. I didn't...
Lynx122
Master Age: 36 Guys, What are the main things a guy notices about a girl that makes him want to hit on her?
What traits does a girl have that a guy notices, making them want aproach her so suddenly? And if a guy wants to hit on a girl but doesn't, what's holding him back? I want truthful, descriptive answers even if it's like...
Serah8675309
Xper 5 Age: 28 Where I Think Women Screw Up In Relationships
So ladies this Take is especially dedicated to y'all. I've read other Takes about this and I felt that people couldn't genuinely list out what makes men unhappy and discontent in their relationships. So let me begin with...
Chief16
Editor Age: 33 What's up with his behaviour, why is he acting so hot and cold?
Ok so a little background history, this guy who I know through family friends started flirting with me nearly 7 years ago, at the time I was 14 and he was quite a bit older (nothing sexual every happened) and we was quite...
Anonymous
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