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I’m probably one of the few who would rather date a loner. Part of it is because I hate for us to have to split time in various ways (work, family, hobbies, etc) so the less friends, the better for me 🤷‍♀️ Now if the guy has long term friends who he's grown up with, im fine with that. But i really dont like people who meet someone that same year and act like thats their new best friend who means the world to them. I don't know it just seems questionable to me. Tbh, I stopped trying to make friends after college. Now i just like to be acquainted and have someone to vent to or ask advice. I really just need the SO to be my best friend (and more of course). I mean I still have those 3 cousins who i talk to every now and again but thats better than nothing. They’ve been around since birth and thats all I really need. I had 4 good guy friends who lasted 6-8 years each but our jealous SO’s split us apart after some time. I also had 2 good friend girls who lasted 3-7 years but one slept with my dude and the other said I wasn't sanctified enough for her. After that, every girl i came across tried to get at whoever I was crushing on. So i really dont trust females and keep my distance... Back in college, I dont know it was just something about seeing a guy sitting on a bench alone with headphones in his ears on the daily. I found that so dang sexy. Anyways, what about you?
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I broke up with my boyfriend yesterday and today he came to collect his stuff. We were together 6 months throughout those 6 months till the end he told me he loved me constantly. Told all his friends and family I was the 1. Whenever we were apart he told me he missed me. It was a text argument that went too far we were both stupid and said things we shouldn't have. I text him this morning before he came to collect stuff and said I didn't want this and that it was his decision and I wanted to sort it. He was still mad and said it was over. We text times and places to swap stuff. He came to mine he was here all of a minute and said he was in a rush (he's just been at home since). He said the minimum and made no eye contact. His voice was quiet and he kept saying right over and over. I am truly gutted but from texting this morning i've done what I can and let him know how I feel. Do you think he'll text? if so post an opinion on how long you think i need to wait.