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The 3 essential building blocks to any successful Marriage or Relationship

The 3 essential building blocks to any successful Marriage or Relationship

As everybody knows there are ups and downs of every Marriage. I will use the term Marriage but this goes for relationships too.

Sadly, when it comes to love, there can be a lot of negativity in there and everyone who has been in a relationship knows, they aren't all sunshine and rainbows, smiles and happiness. They are hard work sometimes, but I've found that you usually get just about as much as you put into them. If you want to have a strong bond with the one you love, you have to create that bond. And, once you've created it, you have to work on strengthening it all the time.

With that being said. Here are the 3 fundamental building blocks of any marriage. You can easily refer this to building a house.

The 3 essential building blocks to any successful Marriage or Relationship

3 fundamental building blocks of any marriage

1. Trust

Trust is important in any relationship, most especially in marriages. Without trust, a relationship wouldn't survive or even last. ... Trust is fundamental to life, and it is safe to say that more relationships fail by a lack of trust than by actual infidelity. Trust is the foundation that you pour to build your house. The same goes for your marriage. You must lay down this foundation so that the relationship can be supported by something. With all of the various elements life can throw at us, it's not surprising that so many people have issues when it comes to trust. However, if you want to have the best possible bond with the one you love, you must let go of mistrust and open your heart to full and complete trust of one another.

2. Commitment

Think of at least one major accomplishment in your life that has really made you proud of yourself. Now, think of the initial commitment you made when you got started. On a scale of 1-10, how committed were you? Were you very committed or simply desiring something? There’s a vast difference between the two. When you simply desire something, you do it only when circumstances permit. When you’re committed, you accept no excuses, only results. Commitment is a binding pledge that obligates you to assume a position or carry out a course of action. Making a commitment to who you love because it is one of the most fundamental principles of life, success and love. Commitment is the walls of your house. It lays on top of trust/foundation and allows you to build and secure your marriage. Commitment could also be considered loyalty.

The 3 essential building blocks to any successful Marriage or Relationship

3. Compromise

I believe in compromise—in truth, in honesty, in respect. In my opinion, one of the most important factors in a romantic relationship between you and your partner is to talk things out when things get rough. Why do I think compromise is so important? Essentially, it allows you and your partner to balance each other’s needs by considering both of your positions, which leads to mutual understanding between the two of you as well as a solution to the main issue. As a direct result of understanding you each have sacrificed something in order to share the solution with your partner, both of you will gain each other’s trust, and in doing so, commitment. Compromise would be the roof that holds your house/relationship together and keeps your heart safe. Without it your house/marriage would fall apart at the first sign of rough times.

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The 3 essential building blocks to any successful Marriage or Relationship
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