He wants an open relationship, I want monogamy—what do I do now that he blocked me?

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ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

Get on with life you have to look at it for what it is there's positive and negative in this world right and wrong good and bad love hate God devil we live in a duality world so he says yes you say no well you're both right he's right for himself and you're right for yourself if he blocked you that means he's trying to tell you something you're saying no to him that means you're trying to tell him something in your world your energy is is protecting you and in his world his energy is doing what he wants you just have to say well learning experience and move on you know exactly who he is now he knows exactly who you are now not a big deal you have your reasons he has his reasons not a big deal you don't like what he does understandable he wants you to do something you don't want to do understandable it's a learning experience no matter how old you get you will always be learning something just keep learning and keep moving on it just means he wasn't the right one for you acknowledge it accept it Let It Go and you'll run right into the next one

Iron_Man · Accepted Answer

The guy just wanted to use you for sex and wanted to date other girls and do the same thing with them. He’s a coward that blocked. Be glad that you’re done with him. Move onto a good man

choco-latte · Accepted Answer

Consider yourself lucky that he blocked you instead of wasting more of your time, and move on. He doesn’t sound like a gem, but at least he was honest about his expectations instead of deceiving you and cheating.

Nikki1989 · Accepted Answer

Start a new account with your real age, please.

Love Doctor Brad · Accepted Answer

I’m here on GAG to help you untangle messy hearts and confusing behaviors, babe 💋

Him wanting an open relationship and then blocking you is a massive red flag. That’s emotional immaturity plus low commitment. Believe his actions: he chose distance over discussion.

Don’t chase, don’t text from another number, don’t beg. Heal, grieve, then find someone whose love style matches yours: loyal, monogamous, present. You’re not “too much”; you’re asking the right guy for the right thing.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

You are 68 years old and asking this question? He wants casual sex and you don't, so the only question is how long it will take you to realize that this is not where your future lies.

AviatorTom · Answer

Find a new guy. I'm sure there are plenty of 60-70 year olds for you.

Finchie40 · Answer

Move on and find yourself a guy that wants the same thing as you do

beenherebefore · Answer

You move on. This is not going to work if you want different things out of a relationship and even if you try to change your mind to accommodate what he wants it may look fun in the beginning but it won't long term as this was never what you wanted.

Random_lyre · Answer

You guys are incompatible. You'll be unhappy in an open relationship if you want monogamy. Him blocking you shows a lack of maturity if it was just over that which is definitely not good for a relationship at all nevermind an open relationship which needs a lot more communication and trust in my opinion. You should take it as a break up and move on. You deserve better.

UniquelyBasic · Answer

He wants something that you don't? Then blocked you? Seems like you should try to contact him other ways to conform to his way of dating. It might be the only logical thing you can do 🥸

Tamera952 · Answer

Consider yourself lucky? The blocking seems super immature and unnecessary, but at least you don’t have to deal with it anymore.

OneViewpoint · Answer

Move on down the road. You've reached a fork in the road of life and you want to go in separate directions. So go.

Likes2drive · Answer

Can’t do much if he blocked you and what guy around your age would even consider an open relationship because I don’t think he’s very active sexually in his 70s to want that, unless he’s a lot younger than you

DonaldDarko · Answer

Move on. He just wants random hookups. He's going to end up really sick. There are some bad STDs around now from all the degenerates.

EmmaMary · Answer

Fucking Hell! Just how old are you, and please do try to be honest?

jazzy34 · Answer

Move on with your life. You two want completely different lifestyles.

midnightmoon05 · Answer

At 68? lol do whatever you/he wants. Still can’t figure out life? Silly

bowenw · Answer

It sounds like the two of you are not compatible and never will be, so move on and find someone who wants the same kind of relationship as you.

RavVid · Answer

Be happy you won't have an incompatible relationship.

_Jenny_ · Answer

@sunnistar11 Send him to me bc I’m interested in an open relationship 💃

Pretendingtobesweet · Answer

He is possessed by demons. You need to put a spell on him

Jamie05rhs · Answer

You should have been the one to block HIM. And why is this even a question? Leave him in the dustbin of history where he belongs.

Anonymous · Answer

What do you mean ," what do I do now that he's blocked me?" You can't be serious. You leave him alone duh. You have no choice , he doesn't like you and has someone else most likely

UD2090 · Answer

Ask yourself if it suits you, try and understand what makes him go for it. Try and see if there are things you can work along with that's good else you know what to do.

AgentG111 · Answer

Go find some guy who only wants you. Good luck!

dudeinohio · Answer

He blocked you. You find someone new. Open relationships aren't relationships at all.

kitty91996 · Answer

Move on he is showing you what he is about so that is an indication not to waste your time.

Calyptomaniac · Answer

Blocking you seems clear it's over...

Abbycado · Answer

Nothing. He blocked you.

Levin · Answer

Find someone who also wants monogamy?

BadApple69 · Answer

Move on. Open relationships don’t work.

lilBigPotato · Answer

Move on with your life.

WhitneySnow · Answer

Nothing. Block him back and move on.

slatyb · Answer

He's moved on. You should too.

Essa1212 · Answer

Forget about him and move on.

Sunday2001 · Answer

You need move on chasing him would get you sick.

CubaPirate · Answer

Move on I guess

BadInfluence05 · Answer

Then Set him free. He can be open all he wants.

Staximus · Answer

How about move on with your life

Deepinthought345 · Answer

Move on? Find someone to be monogamous with

fishbone77 · Answer

Find a man who shares your values.

ThisSiteSux · Answer

Find a monogamous boyfriend. Retard

Anonymous · Answer

Ask for commitment

katiesmuff · Answer

Move On!

4ngelic · Answer

You move on

Smashingdoozy · Answer

Move on?

MasterKS · Answer

move on your own path.

Agape93 · Answer

Move on

MrChinaski · Answer

Move on.

ChicoFromThe305 · Answer

Keep moving forward

loveyouoak · Answer

Block him

Pterodon · Answer

Move on

msc545 · Answer

Find another guy.

DirtyOldMan777 · Answer

move on

In_Trance · Answer

Move on

kinks1951 · Answer

Move on

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

Dump him and move on

He wants an open relationship, I want monogamy—what do I do now that he blocked me?

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