MONEY - how it's spent, saved, budgeted, invested. What role does it play in power dynamics including who does what chores? Interior decorations? Food? Etc.
KIDS - do you want kids? How many? How far along into the marriage? Birth plan? Discipline? Religion? Values? Responsibilities? Diapering? School? College? If you don't want kids,birth control -metods? Plus a mutual responsibility to be pro-active towards the mutual goal.
*KIDS ARE A NON-NEGOTIABLE ISSUE A PART FROM AGREEING WITH WHETHER YOU BOTH WANT THEM OR YOU DON'T*
SEX - Frequency? What makes good sex vs. Bad sex? Sex toys? Off-limit activities? Rules? Foreplay? Role-play? Aftercare? How to reignite the spark? How to discuss it in detail with respect to both partners? Turn-On's vs. Turn-Off's? When and where is it acceptable?
IN-LAWS - What are their roles in the wedding? Roles as grandparents? Policy for asking for their help? How much can you tell them about the state of your marriage or relationship? Power of attorney in case of emergency? Where or with whom to spend the first year's holidays?
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Human relationships are complicated and nobody should be forced to stay in a toxic situation. There are countless resources for all of the above areas.
Whatever you haven't discussed prior to saying 'I do' will become a rude awakening after the honeymoon.
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You hit Marriage and strife between spouse in an organized and complete manner.
Sex and money.
Nice take!