Search Results: which guy do i choose

Are they simple? As in, are they things which anyone can relatively easily achieve but choose not to or are they things which are more rigid like genetics? I am asking standards, not wants. Standards can be defined as wants you are not willing to negotiate much on, wants more as things you would prefer but can afford to not have. Standards should also mean that if a partner satisfies your basic standards they should be datable and considered datable.

Apparently the prespective is guys are more lose with their standards and would be will to date more or less anyone decent (even if they are not perticularly good looking or physically attractive), but girls are more selective. I am not sure I have much of an opinion so asking you guys...
Just to add to the question, what are the things you can't compromise on?

Inspired by my chat/conversation with @thatsamazing

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=DtDT3QZ-6u0

I know every family has problems, and every parent has failed in some way, but this is no excuse. My grandma always promised she’d leave something for each of her grand kids when passes. When she died none of us received anything. I thought my grandma really just had nothing due to the fact that she was a struggling immigrant.

Just today I found out my grandma had thousands of dollars in multiple accounts. My mom was the one entitled. Instead of my mom giving to me n my siblings. She gave 100% to her brothers leaving us with nothing. Her reason for that is because my uncle doesn’t work. Which is not an excuse, my uncle is one of those guys who chooses not to work, has no ambition. Hate to say this about my own uncle, but it’s true. Me n my siblings needed that money more than anything. I’m trying to go back to school because I struggle working at a dead end job. And my sister finished school with $70k student debt. We need that money more than anything.

I’m not here to bitch about my parents. I understand all parents have screwed up n everyone can complain about their parents, but. This is was the last straw.

My mom has never been a real parent. She’s never taught us anything simply because she was too lazy. She never stood up for me when I was a child, used to verbally/emotionally abuse me, didn’t care when my dad would physically abuse me, and uses the bible to justify their evil ways. So this money situation has really shown me I don’t have a mother. I won’t ever even introduce my mom to my children. The only way she’ll meet them is if they wanna go find her. But I won’t make them visit her if they don’t wanna.

Am I wrong for this?