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Last time, I created a question poll about which gender group hurts women the most, with 72% of them saying that women hurt women the most over 28% of those who said it was men.

And, to be honest, I'm not surprised, because as much as modern society likes talks about how evil men are for oppressing women for over centuries, women are actually as responsible for women's oppression as men are since the Dawn of time, from Ancient Egypt to even the 21st century. And I'm not just talking about straight white women, I'm talking about women of all races and sexualities, including women who claim to be feminist and all about sisterhood, yet they criticised and shame women for harmless choices whether it's about their careers, looks, hobbies etc.
And there are a few examples I can say such as:

1) Men (of any sexual orientation) who are into comics, manga, anime and video games won't complain about fictional male characters being "too sexy, too muscular, too masculine etc." while women (especially SJW feminists) would complain about fictional female characters being "too sexy, too feminine, her boobs & butt being too big etc." because they think it's all about the "male gaze", even though lesbians and bisexual women can also be attracted to those types of women and not just men, plus there are plenty women who naturally look like this and aren't straight neither are trying to attract or impress men nor because society says that this is what women are supposed to "look like".

2) And it's not just women having a problem with fictional women who are physically attractive, in shape and very "feminine & girly" but also with women in real life who look, dress and act like that, more so than men do.

This why I believe women are as responsible for patriarchy existing as men are. Regardless, I would love for all of you to share your opinions whether or not you believe that women are their worst enemies, regardless of your gender and sexual orientation.

As for me, despite all of the bull crap I still have to put up with at work, my life is glorious compared to what it was like in school. I was forced to listen to stuff I'd surely never use in the real world, the assignments never stopped, and I had absolutely no choice but to go as I was required by law to go to school and of course not having a diploma wouldn't help me get jobs. I felt like a prisoner the entire time that I'm dead serious, I tallied the days until school was out every year and kept track of the percentage of days completed down to the second, hoping the numbers would tell me that freedom (even though it was always very temporary) was on it's way in late June. Although I'm not the best at showing it, I'm very grateful to be out of school and working and being able to make decisions that I had no authority nor the money to make in school, such as working, enjoying my hobbies, and investing in myself. All of those years, I felt like a prisoner being forced onto the bus at gun point and forced to stay, but now I have a choice and I get paid for the work I do, and furthermore the work I do is important, the same can't be said about school, the only thing I was working for was to get out of there. Are you happy to be done with school or do you miss it?

Age: 29

Height: 5'8

Body: fit and lean, but not necessarily imposing.

Face: darker features: hair, facial hair, eyes. Sharp jawline.

Job: firefighter/emt

Education: currently working on nursing degree.

Personality: fun and down to earth. Caring, Intelligent and articulates well, but generally doesn't take things too seriously.

Hobbies: cooking, gardening, volunteering, DIY projects/woodworking, spending time with family and pets.

I live alone with my dog sam. I really enjoy my independence, but I'm just not sure if I'm ready to add a SO to my life yet. But maybe someday.

Additional information: I am a virgin. Pretty much by choice. I know many women would be turned off by this but...

I won't just give it away to anyone and I am most certainly not desperate. It is what it is, (shrugs)

So I guess that's it. 😊