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So my boyfriend entered to win and he was like well if we win I’m giving your mom money to go on the trip (I planned for us to go to PUERTO RICO for her 50th birthday) and we’ll go off and get married. It was a joke and my mom and I so happen to talk about the mega million and I told her what he said and she got really offended. She’s like oh no one is standing in the way of y’all getting married & your not gonna pay me off.

im like what😒😒no one even took it there it was a joke. So now my mom is angry. I’m like if we didn’t want you apart of it I wouldn’t have even asked you to plan my wedding! She didn’t care about what I was saying or the fact that I was crying cause she ended up telling me to plan my own wedding.

Now once I move out our family home I will no longer speak with her. Now the question is would you be offended by the joke?

p. s. my mom never shows she cares about my feelings but I’ve always been caring of hers and it isn’t fair.

Well, I do admit bold guys are attractive my future boyfriend better be polite or I do dump him.

Am I sure I would never be attracted to a rude uncultured swine? 100% positive.

I had two bad boys liking me before and honestly I wanted nothing more than slamming one with a hammer for his lack of manners and slap the second one for embarrassing me in public with his untimely confessions (times in front of the teacher when I would clench fists to stop my hand from gathering strength)

Jerks are jerks, whoever wants to reform them!

Thanks goodness I would never see their faces again in this life 😊🎉

I love daddy so much for the phrase 'I wouldn't mind entering prison for this brat so my daughter is safe, I didn't raise her to cry for someone I has to discipline today in his parents' stead' that stiffened one from going on with his 'jokes' in middle school ever since (good grief I had period of desperation at this time because of him and his gang of friends, if he dared to go for sexual harrasment I would've been the one in trouble for getting violent)

So yeah, I has that hatred for shameless boys, aside from the two who liked me, many likes to tease me and watch me panic or gets angry unless I scream they don't stop like sticky bugs.

Really girls, I'm not you and peopleeach has their preferences, but why go for a deal breaker?

As much as I love my daddy, I can't find his smoking behavior attractive but dangerous, I'm eager for him to reduce if not miraculously stop it.

Alcohol and cigarettes are red alarms when on a partner.

So I do never why some would go for drug dealers or ones with chunni syndrome.

The charm is great but choose your first love (at least) candidates with your head instead of hormones.

I asked mom about why women would choose drunkards she said it's because they're soft-hearted and usually easy-going.

I'm confused, sure dad never hit or screamed at us (mom, sis, me) when he used to drink before I turned 5, there's plenty violent ones.

I come over on weekends and boyfriend (of 8 years on the 11th) and I share a queen bed. The way he likes us to sleep is on top of the comforter with single Mexican blankets covering us. One of them is slightly larger, I usually use it since I get colder and it covers my shoulders and feet. He will keep the fan on every night and sometimes crack the window even in 20 degrees, so I’m usually cold at his house.

Lately, he’s been getting colder with the winter weather. Last night, he got really angry and started yelling at me because he said he was tired of being cold in his own bed and blamed me. Saying I don’t give a shit about him, when just that morning I had given him the extra blanket I went and got out of the living room and literally covered him up with it. It didn’t matter to him and he ended up telling me he didn’t even want me here. He knows I’m struggling with feeling like no one wants me around and am at a really low point, as I just mentioned it not long ago. I started crying and he offered no comfort (he usually doesn’t), instead he got more mad. He told me “Alright I told you to be quiet and you’re not, so leave.” I was crying and begging him to just let me go to bed at that point, I had already taken something to help me sleep so driving wasn’t an option.

Honestly I feel sometimes like he wants an excuse to be mean to me. He could’ve easily gotten under the blanket we sleep on top of, or gotten one out of his closet and now I have to hear his words of “I don’t even want you here echoing in my mind now, when I already feel totally unwanted, even by my own family. I try to talk to him and he doesn’t listen. Is he justified to be so upset at me? What are your thoughts? Thanks in advance!