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Search Results: dating a guy without scaring him away
JESUS! What is this crazy chick's end game?
My ex left me for another dude (complete loser btw) without me knowing. She called me an abuser and just left. I felt horrible and wanted closure for a while till she let it all spill about how she is screwing the new guy...
Anonymous
(25-29) What I’ve Learned About Relationships
**Disclaimer: this is written from the point of view of a 20 year old, straight woman, whose goal is to be in a healthy, monogamous relationship with a straight man. This will affect the text but the text can apply to...
Lela247
Xper 5 Age: 28 Does he have feelings for me or what was the take away of the conversation we had?
This guy who has been single for 7 years and I dated last year for about 4 months and we went our separate ways once he didn't want to put forth more effort into dating by communicating more etc. I decided I was going to...
barbie2525
Explorer Age: 37 How to Escape The Friendzone in Just 5 Steps
“Oh, we’re just friends.” As a guy who's trying his best to attract this one special girl, don’t you hate hearing those words?! It turns a friendship platonic, impotent and limp. It makes your lust for her seem so...
bobair
Influencer Age: 51 How to tell an ex you don't want to be his "friend"?
My ex and I broke up about a year ago. It was a really toxic relationship. Basically, he kept trying to "impress" me rather than treating me with respect. In the end, I felt like he was just playing relationship games and...
Anonymous
(36-45) Did I scare the guy I'm dating away?
So I've just started dating someone around a month ago and when we first started speaking we would talk all day, He didn't have Instagram the first few weeks but he recently got it back and followed me (I told him I'd...
Miabbb
Xper 4 Age: 28 A Letter to a Surprising Friend, and His Help in Climbing Out of What Seemed to be a Bottomless Black Hole
I know this will be more helpful to me than anyone else, and also since this is anonymous and the person I'm writing about doesn't know about my account nor that this site even exists, then its not going to get to back to...
19magic
Guru Age: 29 Is it bad that I feel like I'm less attractive to guys when I'm makeup and weave free?
Every time I go out without fake hair on my head I feel like guys think I'm ugly and undesirable when I'm makeup free and have nartual hair. I feel like if I get dreads than I'm definitely going to be completely alone and...
Dog19
Yoda Age: 27 My Slightly Different Preference For Guys...
Seems as if there's a lot of these around so I felt like writing my own as I feel I look for something a bit different in guys! Physical Height is not an issue for me . I'm 5'5" and my tallest boyfriend was 5'10" and the...
Comawhite666
Explorer Age: 34 How to Get a Girlfriend (as Requested by the Guys!)
This myTake was recommened the most in one of my recent questions, so I'm going to cover it for all the guys who might appreciate it. Note I took about 20 websites of info, personal experiences, and peer advice and threw...
just_a_potato
Guru Age: 23 A List Of ThingsThat Really Piss Me Off
A List Of Things That Really Piss Me Off As always enjoy or not, both are welcomed. 1. When People Accuse Me Of Degrading Behavior. A pet peeve of mine is when someone accusing me of something degrading. I remember...
Anonymous
(30-35) How I Became Trapped With A Controlling Boyfriend, And Why I Choose To Stay
This is going to be a long and difficult MyTake. I think most of you will find it too much to ever read. You will probably hate me, but it is something I need to write. The Beginning I met him in college. I'm going to...
Anonymous
(30-35) Does he mean what he say?
I have been dating this guy on and for some time (8 years to be exact) and decided to end things due to long distance. But recently we bonded again and found out we are unable go forget each other so ended up getting...
Anonymous
(30-35) What should I do?
So me and this girl were dating for 2years. She is my first love and she says i am hers but i honestly dont know. I used to be the kind of guy who let his ego get the best of him and situations so if i would ever hear...
Anonymous
(25-29) Need a Rosetta Stone for what's going on with the guy I'm dating?
I'm a single mom of one son, just under a year out of an abusive relationship. I'm fairly well adjusted, but still a little insecure. I recently started dating a wonderful guy who is gentle, considerate, and emotionally...
curiouskitten86
Xper 5 Age: 39 Advice! Is he interested, what do I do?
Kinda silly question - there’s this guy i see in a personal meeting I go to every week and I think he’s totally cute. He stares without looking away or when. I catch him he turns his head fast and I loook again and he’s...
Anonymous
(30-35) How to get to know a girl? What steps should I take if a girl likes me and I'm interested in her? (inexperienced)?
I started a new job nearly 3 weeks ago and there is a girl that is crushing on me hard, she can't keep a straight face, she's laughing at pretty much everything I say, asked me for my phone number twice (although I lost...
Anonymous
(30-35) Guys, How do I find out if he wants to go out again without looking pushy or desperate? I want to see him again but I'm shy to see how he may respond?
Have gone out with this guy a couple of times and have had a great time! He said he wants to hangout with me all the time but hasn't really initiated anything since then. How do I suggest we meet for drinks or hangout...
Anonymous
(30-35) How do I stop getting nervous when he starts being affectionate with me?
I really like this guy and he likes me back but it's complicated so were not really dating, we're basically boyfriend and girlfriend without the internment stuff When we first met we instantly liked each other and it...
Alice2398
Guru Age: 28 I'm Scared of Losing Her... help?
I really like this girl. I told her my feelings last May and that I wanted to be more than friends. After a day of thinking she told me that we should just be friends. She did say to a mutual friend that she did have...
Anonymous
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