Search Results: face or body

I have seen on social media about how women said if they choose to go without makeup and not shave, they’d be called ugly and not taking care of themselves. From my experience I chose not to wear makeup because I don’t like how it feels on my skin since I felt more comfortable with a bare face. When I go out with a bare face and no shaving, I didn’t get hit on by men which to me it’s to my advantage since getting hit on stresses me out big time. My best friend wears makeup whenever she wants to and I’m fine with it. All women and girls have the rights to do what they want when it comes to makeup and shaving. Are men put off by body hair, stretch marks, cellulite, acne marks, dark circles, mole, etc?

I don’t wear makeup and I don’t shave my underarms because I only have hair on my underarms and down there, the rest of my body is silky smooth. I know there are girls and women like me in real life and every one of them has a choice in what they want to do with their bodies. I was wearing a basic sleeveless dress and I was sitting alone at a bar and there was a young man around my age chatting me up. I was shocked because I’m sure he has noticed I don’t look good in any way especially my underarms being unshaven, my face having pimples and some acne scars on my face. I was panicking inside but pretend to show I’m not afraid of him. I answered his questions and we did have a chat. He then asked me if I’m single to which I replied. ‘I prefer to stay single because I’m a burden due to personal reasons. There are way better looking girls around here why pick me when you can pick them?’ He replied ‘You have the confidence to go out like this is the reason why, not everything is about looks you know.’ He left and I saw how he looked a little disappointed. I find being single is safer, easier and cheaper compared to getting married. Since marriage does comes with lots of stress especially when there are kids involved and honestly I couldn’t handle married life. It doesn’t matter if it’s marriage life with or without kids. I just know I couldn’t handle them. I’m a weak vulnerable person so I couldn’t afford to be in a relationship where it might be a toxic/abusive one.

I’m 23, but people often think I’m 18 or 19. I get why. My face, my body, and how I behave

I don’t mind having a young-looking face, but my body makes me feel like a child. I’m thin (though I have a bit more fat now, so I look “more like a woman”), small waist, medium butt for my weight, and small boobs. I’m petite but not short, I’m 5'5

I’m also not sexy at all. I know I’m not hot. Nothing about how I move, talk, or act feels “sexy"

I also behave younger. The way I speak and my mannerisms, like sitting with my legs swinging if they don’t reach the floor, probably add to that. So I can’t fully blame my appearance

I don’t think I’m ugly; I think I’m pretty (not gorgeous or hot, just pretty). But I don’t feel very “womanly”

I’m not into casual dating or sleeping around. I’ve only been with one guy, and I don’t see more than one person at a time

I just feel like most guys won't take me seriously. The way I approach dating feels kind of “childish”

Could guys keep up? I don’t like bars or alcohol. I prefer coffee shops. And I wouldn’t sleep with anyone until a lot of months have passed

There’s nothing wrong with that, I know, but I can’t help thinking guys see me as not mature enough because of all these things

And I only used photos that do not include their body and face which is why the sphinx and pyramids are not here.

I followed a cosplayer on Instagram. He’s basically mixed race. He’s a half New Zealand and Indonesian. He posted with these pronouns she/he/they. He can understand and speak English, Indonesian. I admired how he got a perfectly feminine look after that surgery. Should I ask him when he has gotten it and how the recovery is like? Although he changed his gender he still has that mixed race look which makes him a beautiful woman. I wish he didn’t go under the knife so I can have a chance with him. I have this feeling he’s a dreamy young man but it’s a bit of a waste but not entirely because he might get a boyfriend who’s accepting of him. As a huge fan of him is it appropriate or am I being a busybody?