Will a guy stop following girls in bikinis if I stop complaining about it?

[Anonymous]

Hey guys,
happy Sunday, i hope you are doing well. so I've been very and i mean very insecure about my boyfriend following girls that posts themselves in bikinis. it bothers me so much and i hate that about myself. however, in the last two days i have been working on myself and not caring what he does on social media. i know it’s going to be a process, it’s going to be a roller coaster of emotions until im confident in myself to not care like at all. so my question is, since all I've done for the past four years is complain about his social media and how he follows girls that shoe their bodies in bikinis, in your honest opinion, do you think he will slow down on following them? him and his very best friend go to this pool/restaurant type of place every weekend. there is a waitress there and out of all the waitresses my boyfriend and his friend followed her. again she posts herself in bikinis, she doesn’t show her face. that one bothers me the most because he knows her in real life. anyway, my question is, when i’m confident in myself and not care if he follows bikini girls will he slow down in following them?

[Anonymous]

I’m not so sure it’ll slow down. It could, but chances are it won’t. Either he’s going tomorrow it which if he’s about your age he’s still pretty young. When we’re younger we tend to do dumb things, emit even then he may not outgrow it. The part that gets me is the same thing you said, he knows her personally. It would be different if these were women he didn’t know. I’m not trying to make an excuse for it but I know what you mean. The possibility of cheating is greater then that of just follow g random women online. So I understand. I will say though you working yourself up about it is more than likely not going to change his actions. You’re just going to drive yourself insane, possibly even cause yourself to get sick. How long have you two been together? To me that’s disrespectful. I’ve been w my girl for almost 18 years. Yes I do find other women attractive, but I don’t follow them online or try to befriend them w ulterior motives. Was this someone he knew before getting w you?

[Anonymous]

If he cares about your feelings, he should be more than willing.

[jahaims]

Date someone who respects you. Only a loser follows that kind of stuff on social media

[soe11]

• I'm not one of them.

[WonderingManII]

Probably not.