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Search Results: how often do guys think about their ex
Why do you think some people allow their family to interfere with their dating life?
I think it has to do with abandonment. As a child they probably seeked their parents approval and attention so much that by time they grow older, they let their controlling parents run off their bfs/gfs. —Like my mom...
How often do you call or refer to others as the B word?
I’M TALKING ABOUT THE TERM FOR FEMALE DOG. I personally dont like the word and use it very very rarely. I noticed i called an anon one the other day because he was so rude but I was extremely disappointed in myself...
Is it all about the Chase? How far will a man go for one night of passion?
I never chase a guy because, let’s face it, if he wants you, let him work for it. He pursued me. I gave in quickly. There was passion, emotional intimacy, we traveled together, we inspired each other. We were having great...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) Do some guys purposely not compliment a girl’s looks early in dating? Why?
I’m used to guys complimenting me date 1 saying I’m gorgeous/pretty/beautiful or even if they’re shy over text or after a couple dates... and i guess I’m attractive, I’ve never had issues with guys and am told I’m...
Anonymous
(30-35) It's True that Atheism Isn't a Religion, But...
It's often been argued, by those who profess to be atheists, that atheism is nothing more and nothing less than "an absence of belief in God (or the gods)". This definition is simple, to the point, and clear enough. It is...
Yaaten
Xper 6 Age: 58 If I don’t believe I am attracted to male chauvinist then why do I see something in them that I choose over other men/why don’t I recognize good men?
I was always the girl who didn’t think too hard about gender roles. I was one of the guys up until I was 14 so I always tried to believe that I could understand men. I also didn’t like to think about people as my enemies....
Anonymous
(25-29) Girls- how often do guys tell you they literally had a dream about you (but most likely didn’t) but as a means to get you to fall for them?
I’ve experienced this so often and I’m wondering if other women do too? I know I’m more mystical and gothic and into dreamy stuff, so maybe guys are trying to appeal to me? and so I wondered if I’m attracting this...
Anonymous
(30-35) Observations on Behavior in Dating: A Battle Between the Sexes
This may trigger some people because whether you want to admit it or not, everyone does at least a few of these things when dating. I am equally guilty of doing some of these things too. As I have been on this site for a...
DexWest
Xper 7 Age: 33 Girls, Had quite some trouble with this girl some months ago. Could it be insecure personality?
Hi girls! Just to introduce myself a little bit first I'm a 18 years-old male, brazillian (portuguese is my first language so my English my not be 100%) and have mild autism/Asperger's which I think may be important here....
Anonymous
(18-24) How do you heal after being emotionally invalidated in a relationship?
I finally found the words to describe how my ex treated me. I was emotionally invalidated, which means that I was always made to feel like my feelings weren’t important. Throughout the relationship he would often call me...
Anonymous
(25-29) Do you kind-hearted people realize that the person who has power and control over you makes you seem as heartless as they are?
I’ve seen this before during my childhood when my abusive mother had the power to control my father, my sibling and I. Survivors of childhood trauma and abuse often end up in abusive relationships as adults, every guy I...
Anonymous
(36-45) Did my social anxiety cause him to suddenly break up with me?
Hi guys, I will really try and keep this short: My Ex and I dated for 5 years. We lived together and had dogs and cats together. I moved into my Ex’s flat 4 years ago which was in the same town that I used to go...
kleinejosyyy
Xper 2 Age: 32 Girls: Dating 101: True Love Waits
This is going to be the first in a series of Dating 101 myTakes I will be doing. I will take one very common question, scenario, dilemma or subject, and unpack it, decrypt it, explain or explore it. Some will focus on...
What's your opinion on men crying?
In my opinion it's a rare thing. Or maybe they do it often when no one is around? Men were taught not to cry at a young age, to hide their emotions. Guys, have you ever been told not to cry or to 'man up'?...
alexsa
Xper 6 Age: 34 A Guy's Guide to Digital Communication: How to Talk to Girls Online
A Male Guide to Digital Dating, Friendships, and Online Communication So I'm not sure if this will seem too basic, maybe so (and if so, I apologize) but I have the feeling, after reading various posts and conversing with...
Here's What I Like About Men
I get these random thoughts in my head. Today I was eating dinner - I made Italian sausages, roasted brussel sprouts, and some new-fangled tomato-stuffed gnocchi, and two out of those three things were new, so maybe it...
How do I know if he actually loves me and is fighting his feelings?
I have a friend who I have sex with once a month. Literally he only wants sex from me that often. He calls me when something serious happens in his life. We’ve been talking since last April. He would always go ghost on me...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) Dating After an Emotionally Abusive Relationship
A year and a half after leaving my emotionally abusive ex, I just started seeing another guy. He's very respectful, is fluent in three languages, is a hard worker, doesn't want kids, and has been patient with me wanting...
1truekhaleesi
Editor Age: 29 Are attractive men with style more likely to cheat?
I have a certain type when it comes to looks just like most other people do. I care about my own looks and how I dress and I think these things are important, not more than personality of course but they matter. I also...
Anonymous
(30-35) Having a heart may not be a good thing
From the time I can remember I was taught to help others. To always give. That by doing good you will be rewarded. What happens when your kindness or your heart and your duty to be honorable causes you to suffer?...
COMMODOREII
Master Age: 46 