Search Results: unattractive guys with good personalities

I don’t claim to look like Jennifer Lopez

but I liked a guy from work who acted like he liked me a lot and then kept taking me off his friends list when I tried to add him to my contacts but still viewed my profile over and over again

The thing is this guy is disabled while my alma mater is ranked number 17 in the world

And I said I spent a brief 4 months in graduate school at a top school before getting kicked out

And the other thing was the guy that I perceive to be good looking might be viewed as extremely ugly to others

cause he looks like another guy I used to like and the other guy was rated a 1.5 out of 10 when I posted his photo online / 95% said he was ugly and 5% said personality is more important than looks

maybe he thinks he is both unattractive and disabled and I won’t stay loyal to him if we marry

but to me he is a 9.5 out of 10 - I think he is gorgeous

I refuse to date a guy that I find unattractive
I want the guy to have a stable (good) job
I will reject a guy if I find him attractive but he’s only an inch taller/my same height
On a dating app, if they take hours to respond but respond within 24 hours, I usually ghost

And personality of course, that’s what is at the top of my head atm

I'm in a totally cliché one-sided crush situation. I met this guy on Discord through a mutual gaming friend of ours and almost instantly fell head over heels for him. After over a year of having these bottled feelings, my friends from high school dared me to confess. I told him exactly what was going through my head, and he said he was flattered. Hopefully this is a good sign for me. Soon I'm going to move out of my mom's house in Chicago and head to my aunt's place just outside D. C. He also lives on the East Coast and I'm hoping something will happen. However, I find that I'm a completely different person online than I am offline. It's not a situation of a false personality; far from it. I just find it so much easier to express who I am when I don't have to stand face-to-face with another person (especially strangers) and risk letting an inside joke or pop culture reference slip to make me look like a psycho. I feel free from judgement and especially in this circle of Discord servers I feel like I belong somewhere for the first time in my life. In person, I'm a very shy, quiet, reserved, mousy girl who you'd see reading for hours in a bookshop. Online, I'm a cheery and outgoing goon who can easily make friends with anyone and who knows her way around any FPS or RPG. Both sides come through and blend a bit when I'm with close friends or family. Would this contrast be a relationship dealbreaker?