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Ok me and this girl met when we were about 20 and had a great relationship for 8 years. I started drinking and it lead to us breaking up. She started dating a guy 2 weeks later I introduced her to. They lasted less than a year and we got back together exactly a year after separating.

I ended up finding pictures of her in sexy outfits and nudes on our old camera one day and some sexting stuff while going through our stuff in a closet I was cleaning out. I didn't tell her I found them. I spent the next 3 years trying to get her to send me dirty pictures. She broke up with me again and we separated for 3 years and then ended up back together again.

we've been back together over 10 years now and I have randomly tried a lot of times to get her to send me sexy stuff or sext with me, nothing has worked. This finally came to a head. I got tired of trying and getting nothing. We got into a pretty big argument about it and during the argument I find out that she thinks I'm talking about pictures she sent to another guy she dated right after we broke up the second time.

So both guys she dated right after we split she sent nudes and sexted with but whenever I have tried to get her to in the past I get excuses like she's worried about sending them because someone could get them for whatever reason which is all just excuses to me. So What, did you send them with pigeons the last 2 times.

Over the years this has gotten under my skin trying and never getting anything back. I usually have tried when I've been out of town for work or something. When I've tried sexting with her the responses have been either nothing at all or something that was just lame or her saying she didn't know what to say.

She says that she's been more sexually adventurous with me than anyone else ever. Our sex life I used to think was good but now I'm second guessing it. I usually make sure she gets off first and then she's in a hurry to get it over with. why is there no desire or lust there for her?

A. Make out - Straddling him, let him kiss you, lips and neck for 2 minutes.

B. Abs and belly button kiss - You are wearing a crop top. Let him kiss your abs and belly button for 2 minutes.

C. Hand, foot, leg massage - You are wearing footwear that is easy to remove and a short dress/skirt. Let him give you a hand, foot and leg massage for 5 minutes.

D. Back massage - You are wearing a backless dress or top. Lying face down, let him massage and kiss your back for 5 minutes.

E. Outdoor walk without shoes, underwear - You are wearing footwear that is easy to remove and a short dress/skirt. Take off your shoes, bra + panties (discreetly), then walk around barefoot (depending on location at the time, on the street, in a train station, in a park, in a shopping mall) for 5 minutes.

F. Rub between your legs - You are wearing leggings or similar (no jeans or thick material). Let him rub you between your legs, through your leggings for 2 minutes.

G. Sexy story time - You are wearing short dress/skirt. Let him watch you rub yourself between your legs through your panties as you read an erotic short story or watch a sexy video for 5 minutes.

AKA "Ice Queen"

Guys, when you are on the prowl, looking for a potential dating partner, do you want to find a girl who has

low self-confidence, because she will try harder to please you,

quiet self-confidence, because it is usually easier to co-exist with such a woman, or

a woman who is cocky and arrogant, because a strong woman is sexy and perhaps will be a fiery vixen in bed?

(Girls, I have already posted a corresponding question for you.)