Do you like it when your girlfriend dresses sexy?

Question

In public? Would you guys allow your girlfriend to dress sexy in public? Like showing a lot of cleavage and legs.. What would be your reaction when other guys eye or stare at her?

MrOracle · Accepted Answer

No, not really. When you are essentially advertising yourself with sexual attraction, you will get lots of sexual attention, but whether you realize it or not, most men immediately and permanently disqualify the woman from being a potential relationship partner. To put it another way, most men will consider that woman to be only good for having casual sex with. That may get her lots of attention, maybe some free drinks or meals, etc., but ultimately it's going to work against her best interests. And it takes many women a long time to figure that out - usually only after it's way too late.

The sexiest thing my girlfriend wears, other than a bathing suit at the beach or pool, is a mid-length sundress - and even though they aren't especially revealing, I find them to be incredibly sexy. But they don't draw the same kind of exclusively sexual attention that a sexy cocktail dress would, and I'm very happy they don't.

Obviously adults are able to live their lives as they please, but many people choose to live in such a way as to get immediate short-term enjoyment that comes with long-term, expensive consequences, but because they come later, it's hard to get such people to make decisions that are better for themselves in the long term.

Saramad_Hill · Accepted Answer

Not that I have a girlfriend currently, but I don't care.
I'd definitely be confused if she's wearing a bikini everywhere, sure, but if it's socially appropriate? Go wild. Turn heads. Be proud of yourself. Just don't be surprised if men check out your assets.

Would I be upset with her?
No, not unless she's doing it to get someone's specific attention. The body isn't something to be ashamed of, but awareness of location matters. Supermarket, etc? Do whatever, as long as we don't get the law called on us.

Would I be upset if other men check her out?
Also no. Not unless they're staring so much she gets uncomfortable. I understand a glance here or there. "The male gaze" does exist.
The male glance? Sure, whatever.
The male stare? We either leave or confront the person if she needs a sense of peace again.

I'm not going to control how she dresses, but I can't expect her to completely ignore reality. I'd be happy to just have a partner I want who wants me back.

DishLady · Accepted Answer

Lol. Even the guys who say yes bc they love walking in with the hottest girl on their arm are lying bc in the end they don’t REALLY want other guys genuinely scoping their gal.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I must say that the one or two times that I did that, it wasn't worth it to me. I got more condescending looks from women that men and that is the truth.

HawkPerception · Answer

I'm really not attracted to girls who dress provocatively in general. Like, if I see them on dating apps, I swipe left on them (and I'm telling ya... I swipe left on like 95% of girls). Skin-tight clothing and excessive makeup seem to be the norm nowadays.

The most attractive girls to me will always be those who dress in flowy clothing that does not emphasize their assets TOO MUCH. I'm okay with showing some skin as long as it's done tastefully.

This is the type of aesthetic I'm into:

Do you like it when your girlfriend dresses sexy?

Not too much skin revealed. Just elegant.

Finchie40 · Answer

Yes, I like girls’ that like dressing sexy as long as she is loyal and faithful to me, then I am fine with it

Summeroflove · Answer

She just wants attention. Not my typen

DonaldDarko · Answer

No because it means that she doesn't run that deep. It's the equivalent of the dumb meat head gym rat type. Roided out, loud, obnoxious and dumb. Girls like that are pretty much the same, their brains know only jungle law. That's why they're so oriented to everything physical, they run on instinct. The trashier they dress the more they're like that. I don't care if a girl is super smart, she doesn't have to be a nuclear physicist but I like her to have some depth, to be interested in the how and why of life. Someone who is more philosophical and can hold a conversation about that. Someone who has an actual interest in something besides booze and clubs and hanging her ass and boobs out.

TrimmedTip · Answer

Yeah, I like it when my girlfriend dresses sexy — as long as she's doing it for herself, not just for attention. I want her to feel confident and attractive.

If other guys stare, I won’t love it, but I won’t lose my mind either. That’s life. As long as there's mutual respect and trust, I’m good.

OneViewpoint · Answer

Would I ALLOW her to dress sexy? I'd hope she'd tell me to go fuck myself if I tried to control her like that. And that aside, it would be a huge turn on to see her feeling sexy about herself.

What's the alternative, you want her feeling down and depressed about herself to help out with your insecurities?

Reaction to other guys drooling over her? Take a good look dude. She's with me.

TheorionMage · Answer

In the day-to-day tedium, its easy to forget/overlook your companion's social desirability...  her choice of dress accentuating her assets serves as an impetus acknowledges her OWN recognition of her allure and 'why' YOU are drawn to her companionship; ...'why' your attention is drawn in passing to others (girl watching) and reminds that YOU could be replaced, if she's taken for granted.

Purpleronnie · Answer

I think you’re confusing sexy with slutty , but to answer your question I would not have a girlfriend who dresses slutty anywhere except in our home. For me , it’s who the woman is that’s sexy or not , wearing a potato sack wouldn’t change that but a woman who dresses slutty in public , well that’s just not attractive , it’s shameful

Fireguy17 · Answer

What do you mean allow.
She is an adult and very capable of making her own decisions.
If you are worried about what she is wearing that is your insecurity issue, not hers.
If you don't trust her then why are you with her.
She is the same person in a dumpy t shirt and old jeans, and guys will still hit on her no matter what she is wearing.
So attitudes like that just drive her away to someone else that will appreciate her no matter how she is dressed.

RavVid · Answer

I am going to be offended if my girl gives the impression she is there for being picked up and the more sexily she is dressing then I want her to be clear she is with me.

I am not going to be offended by her being looked at but at the same time I don't want it to be so extreme that other guys offer to fight me for her. Which has happened.

Shiprex · Answer

I would be very puzzled and a bit amused if she did. It's NOT her style and when she even wears a conventional dress she's evidently out of her comfort zone. People who look at her are welcome to talk with her and if she intimates to me that she's being made uncomfortable then words will be had but she's more than able to do that herself and doesn't appreciate someone making decisions on her situation when she is able to do so herself.

SotiCoto · Answer

Rule of thumb here: It isn't "dressing sexy" if the "sexy" is coming from the parts where the clothing ISN'T.

Proper clothing can even make a total rake look good. For instance:

That girl, for instance... WAY too skinny. Totally anorexic. But that is a really awesome dress design. Would look even better with someone with double the BMI.

RedInnocent69 · Answer

Of course. I want her to look her best and feel as attractive as I think she is all the time. It doesn’t bother me that other guys (or girls) look at her. She sucks my cock, I get to feel her up and fuck her pretty much anytime I want. Her value adds to my value, and we’re both pretty both high value.

nawtee_me · Answer

If I think she is sexy looking then why shouldn’t others think the same? If she dresses how she likes and is comfortable with it then I am too. I trust her to do the right thing and I know she is with me so what is the issue? I am not a jealous person but Zi sm a trusting person….

Anonymous · Answer

Yes, but it depends on what you mean by "sexy".

If it's so called "classy look" - I don't like that.

I like girls who wear sporty and casual outfits.

Short shorts, crop tops, skinny jeans, t-shirts, sweat pants, tank tops, camo pants, sneakers or flat boots - That's what I consider sexy on girls.

Lliam · Answer

I'm fine with it as long as she's not doing it to get other guys' attention. I don't care if other guys notice her. It makes me proud to be with her and know that she's  my  girl.

glennos89 · Answer

I dont mind if she dresses sexy when I'm with her as long as it is sexy in a classy way. There is this fine line in dressing sexy or dressing slutty and I would never wanna be with a woman who dresses like a slut

soe11 · Answer

Absolutely yes. I personally endorse and encourage her.  I feel great others glancing her. Let them jealous.  My girlfriend mostly wear revealing outfits publicly.

Jooying · Answer

My outfits show a lot of legs regularly. My husband has no problems. Instead, he likes it quite so much.

byrdman89 · Answer

How many legs does she have? lol - sorry - if she was with me and her dress was appropriate for where we were I'd have no problem at all with it in fact I think it would be fun - as far as guys checking her out - cool! She's with me!

Ariesman81 · Answer

This is what she should be wearing

Miristheiss · Answer

With me. To a degree... not overdone. Going out alone? No. I wouldn't have dated a woman with those values.

Nikki1989 · Answer

She could wear a garbage sack and would still be sexy.

DCVsMarvel2 · Answer

Well once you start telling her what she can and can't wear, then you run into some problems, however, I always hate when she asks my opinion, and then she gets mad when I do

This is why I'm single, lol

juleyboo74 · Answer

My husband loves it and expects it - he likes knowing that other men want what is his.

Joshydavid25 · Answer

I wouldn't really be a big fan of her trying to show off to other people besides me.. So, no basically..

SweetDisaster · Answer

Be proud the she choose you and the she's with you over any other guys. Is that simple. ┐(￣ヘ￣)┌

fivebyfour · Answer

Yes I do, makes me feel good that she chooses to be with me when she gets attention from other guys,,,

DrPepper12 · Answer

Allow? She's my girlfriend not a slave. I love it!! They drool & gawk but I go home with her.

ilistengood · Answer

"LET HER..." I would hate to try to stop her, yes I enjoy it when she's feeling sexy and wants the world to know.

Makeushiver · Answer

That is a very sexy outfit shown. Do you know the fabric? I love the clinginess of it.

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

If i had a girlfriend, she can wear something sexy but at the same time being modest if you get what i mean...

jahaims · Answer

The only reason to dress that way in public is for public attention. People use it as validation to cope with being insecure.

Rohaan2020 · Answer

I am completely ok with her wearing such dresses when she’s bout with me…. Other guys staring at her would make me feel proud that she’s mine and they can’t have her

Alex-Snow · Answer

Of course. But at times I have to deal with a constant boner! Part of being a younger guy I guess.

BeachBreak420 · Answer

Of course. I find it sexy when a guy or girl are comfy in their skin.

WonderingManII · Answer

I would be like, I'm so happy she is MY girlfriend!

Bawpycumsinamy · Answer

Does this count? This is how I dress if my mom or his will be around

Aardvarkmeat · Answer

I like it a lot! However, we live in a small town and the guys around here aren't well mannered. I prefer she dress that way when we are out of town, if she chooses to do so.

lorenzomichael · Answer

Absolutely. But for me only not for everybody else to see. Very attractive YES sexy sluty NO.

Damcky · Answer

I love it. Shows self confidence. Plus I enjoy looking too.

Likes2drive · Answer

Yeah I wouldn’t mind but she doesn’t seem to dress that sexy when we go out

jeremy_09 · Answer

Allow? She can wear what she wants. And I like when she dresses sexy when we go out.

Amur8711 · Answer

I thinking I be okay with it, because I trust her and I also like seeing her sexy and if other guys find her sexy it makes me feel good she chose me.

CubaPirate · Answer

I love it and I don't mind other guys giving her admiring glances in public. Because I don't get jealous lol

Anonymous · Answer

I don't tell my girlfriend what she can or can't wear, but thankfully she's not the type to dress like a slut in public.

BLP11520 · Answer

I am married but I would not want men staring at my hypothetical girlfriend

Anonymous · Answer

Back when I dated, it was fine even fun to watch people work out how we worked together

Slutyjesse69 · Answer

My boyfriend loves when i dress really sluty when i go out epically girls night

Anonymous · Answer

That's called dressing like a whore not dressing sexy

Kaneki05 · Answer

Of course, and my reaction? Slyly enjoy it.

Anonymous · Answer

No, I dont like it because I want to fuck her too bad then.

exitseven · Answer

Yes, bit only at home.

Kelly6 · Answer

@bloodparadise my hubby loves it

fish5505_87 · Answer

Yes, Although, I'm married now, so she stopped!

qwerty2469 · Answer

I don know. She's never dressed sexy

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

Sure i would. If you got it flaunt it

zombiewoof · Answer

She can dress as she pleases

Danny_dan92 · Answer

Don’t care for it

Anonymous · Answer

not safe with migrants around.

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