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So I wanted a hair cut and my hair curled. But my mom says no. The only reason why I'd think she wouldn't let me have a hair cut is because she thinks short hair looks ugly and woman aren't supposed to have short hair. I don't see any other reason. I don't have any money so it's up to her on what happens to my hair. She always told me that my natural hair looks ugly and unpresentable in public. I've always been taught that it's okay to be fat, that being fat was cool, and it's acceptable. Hell, most of my aunts, grandmothers and a few other of my female family members were fat or obese and they all still had boyfriends/ husbands or people who accepted it so why can't a woman wear her hair short, wear her natural curls, or Afro in public yet it's okay to be fat? It's better to be fat than to wear your actual hair in public? Would you rather your girlfriend have short hair or be fat and out of shape? Just a rant. But do you guys think short hair is unacceptable for a woman?