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My boyfriend and I have been together a little more than a year and recently I learned some things. To start when we first got together he made a big deal of learning my sexual history and me telling the truth or not and it got to me because there was a point in time when he drilled me every day. Well he told me that he had a hearty history and it was approx 20 girls some of which he does in fact know in real life. Some of the girls were quite beautiful and he had one of them as his screen saver so on and so forth. I became very down for many reasons and compared myself to their looks feeling like I did not compare. I spent countless nights he lied to me about this for so long letting me be upset about this stuff and feel a rift within myself for a year before he decided to tell the truth. At first I felt relief but now I just don’t even want to be with him anymore. I’m so irritated cause he kept on acting as if I was lying about my sexual history. I’m just kind of at two roads and I feel like I do love him but I’m not sure if I love him enough to let this one go. Give any honest opinions you feel are necessary and thanks you for your time.

Ladies, let's chat! 🛋 You may be aware that men today have their knickers in a twist about something, and that is political correctness, PC culture.

I believe many things in life seem to fit a pattern of opposing, equally strong forces (essentially: yin-yang.) Quite often I would describe it as one not complementing another, but a reaction.

I saw it again - I asked a q about 'hard truths' and an interesting thing came of it - I knew that men would relate to the statement "Political correctness is the elevation of sensitivity over truth" but I didn't know to what degree, and if any of the other statements would pull them in other directions. Of course for some, yes, they chose another. But the majority either chose the PC theme, or referenced that they also liked it. Female votes (although fewer as usual) are fairly evenly distributed.

You feel/believe:
* You don't want to fight
* You dislike conflict (most of you)
* You're here to have fun, be entertained, share some things, learn some things, and for the most part, not debate
* Your experience is that men are much more aggressive towards you than you are to them.
* You often go anon to avoid being targeted
* Expressing a view publicly on one topic that is provocative or controversial sometimes or often leads to male users harassing you on other innocuous topics
* You see many angry, bitter males. You didn't do anything to them yet they are hostile towards you/other pinks
* You've had to close accounts to avoid men FOR EXPRESSING YOUR VIEWS ABOUT THE WORLD (not sexual harassment)
* You support equality and alternative lifestyles

So leaving politics out of this (although traditionalism and progressivisim do factor in some) do you feel strongly that men's aggression, anger, and desire to speak their mind without impunity is the bigger issue?

Men cannot comment and I left the anon feature, so speak your mind.