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I know, many people claim they like or don’t like. This may or may not be a true redirection if how they feel. I know people _say_ many things for many reasons -the truth is not necessarily one of them. I know as well depending on the culture you are influenced by , you for ex. may feel more virtuous being able to desire affection on its our form, or you may feel like a loser desiring any contact not contingent upon sex. We can benefit in different ways for different reasons by masking our actual feelings. Depending upon what is values where we are. ( perhaps begin to believe he lie , if done long enough)

I am interested to know, how you honestly really feel, as well as how you wish you felt or think you should I feel. Basically any detail you can think of that may impact your current displaying. However, even if you only want to say ‘yes’or ‘no’ , this is good too. I will appreciate your contribution 😊.

I am also Interested to know , where you grew up and what kind if attitude your family has surrounding affection and how you are supposed to feel about it.

Post anonymous, if it is helpful to be honest.

I imagine, a person who may be indifferent to affection on its own may crave any physical contact from someone they like - at least initially and or until they are having sex.

I imagine, a person who normally enjoys affection may be uncomfortable with it if they are feeling very sexually frustrated. Especially around someone they like and would like to be having sex with.

I imagine, some people may want it very much, however find communication so difficult to almost impossible, they may come across as indifferent.

I imagine , some people may not care so much but it being so simple for them to communicate, they seem to desire more, relative to those who find voicing things very challenging.

I imagine, a person having suffere abuse or other variations causing mistrust, may swing to either extreme of wanting or repelling affection.

Let's say you find a girl you have a great feeling with and has your definition of the hottest body ever, would you be able to date her without having sex if she says she's waiting until marriage?
Would you see it as a lack of trust and love to you if a girl who told you at the start of a relationship that she's waiting until marriage still is abstaining months in your relationship?