Search Results: he is not allowed to date

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• You wouldn't be aware of the fact they don't love you, it wouldn't really cross your mind, when you're in the relationship.
• They'd never cheat on you or flirt with others, unless you agree to an open relationship or allow them to.
• Your potential partner is basically perfect in every way, aside from the fact they don't love you - they still like you as a person, but they won't love you like a partner would.
• As long as you're in a relationship with them, they'll treat you good and you'll be happy with them, 100% guaranteed.
• Before you enter the relationship with them, when they ask you, you'd know they don't love you, but if you agree to be with them, you'll forget about that.

The only catch is, when you're about to die, you'll find out that they never loved you, but did like you as a person - you'll only find that out in the last 60 seconds of your life, so no other catch about either or you dying young or something like that.

I've never been in this situation, as I've never been in a relationship, asked anyone out, nor been asked out. The main reason I'm saying this, aside from the fact that I've got a weird imagination, is because when I think about life, I think a lot of us are all chasing happiness, because I feel like that's the ultimate goal for us and this rather unusual situation came to mind, because of course it will in my brain.

Ultimately, would you take that relationship, if your happiness would pretty much be certain from now until the last 60 seconds of your life or would you just continue your life as usual and see how it goes anyway and if you can, explain the reason for your choice?

Text 1- I’ve developed a crush on you.

text 2 - Hey, I know we’re best friends but I’ve really enjoyed our time together lately & have felt more for you. I know the current restrictions don’t give much flexibility so I would love to take you on a date once we’re allowed to if you’re interested?

So, is it okay to love someone so much, you need them to feel as good as you do and won't ever feel as good without them? Or is that considered "unhealthy" and bad, and we should all "love ourselves fully and entirely" first and not ever need another human being to ever feel good?

I can understand both sides and think not everyone needs to be this "fully actualized" perfect, fully independent adult without flaw who needs no one, before they should be allowed to get married or date someone.

text A “Hey. A few people think we have a crush on each other. They are right in that I have a crush on you. How do you feel about me?”

Text B “Hey, I know we’re friends but I’ve really enjoyed our time together lately & have felt more for you. I know the current restrictions don’t give much flexibility so I would love to take you on a date once we’re allowed to if you’re interested?”