Is it possible the guy I like is avoiding me?

[jennifer_bloom]

He used to wait for hours for a chance to talk to me secretly after his shift ended and risked his job many times to socialize with me when it was against the rules

i found three profiles on Facebook that I thought might be the guy I like and messaged them and now all three profiles have me blocked

I added a guy on LinkedIn that I thought was him and he accepted and changed his name the next day and when I suggested exchanging numbers he took me off his friends list and deleted his profile

This guy is not allowed to date me because of his job since he was my supervisor at work

But I thought I could date him and quit my job and work elsewhere

But I can’t find him - every time I think I have I either get ignored or deleted or blocked or his profile is hidden and privacy settings don’t let me contact him

There is only one glimmer of hope - A guy with his first and last name has one of my friends as a connection and my privacy settings are done so that only friends of friends are able to view my profile

[veecutie]

If this guy wants you, he WILL let you know. It wouldn't be the first case of a supervisor falling for his supervised if that makes sense. I think you are so caught up on your feelings that you may be stalking him. He may or may not have been one of those profiles, but what's clear is that he doesn't want to do anything with you. What if he has a new girlfriend? What if he realized that he didn't want to lose his job? Don't lose sleep over these incognitoes, go with the evidence. The evidence says he has no interest in contacting you. Stay pretty, gather some friends, go out and soon you will have a guy drooling over you because you are worth that!

[AshViper]

Huh? Unless you guys were going out to a pub after hours he wasn't risking his job in the slightest. Most supervisors are expected to converse with their underlings. For all we know his "secret conversations" were him telling you to work harder.

And that's more likely the case than some secret love affair seeing as everyone with his name has blocked you. Thus you read too much into nothing.

[sabwafair]

Well in the Beginning he liked you and more then likely was thinking on Cheating on his Partner with you.

Most likely told Partner he had to stay for Overtime to meet you like you stated.

Then the Paycheck came with no Overtime pay and his Partner freaked. He lied to her and got caught. He more then likely was able to lie his way out of the missing Overtime pay but certainly decided he could not pull of the Cheat with you.

I'm guessing he does like you but he didn't even touch you and already got caught. To risky so he is no longer interested no matter what !!

This is his Shit and has nothing to do with you.

[MAC1983]

Tell him what you told us...

He needs to know you are interested enough to leave your job!

That makes a World of difference...

[Gisellerichestwoman]

That would undoubtedly scare him off LOL

[MAC1983]

You are an intelligent, emotionally mature and articulate woman - you'll find the words, specially if you train in front of the mirror once.

And, if he gets scared of that, he just might not be the right person for you... Maybe?

[Anonymous]

Just, tell him that you willing to change jobs to be with him or, if you already left it, just go there and talk to him after work, don't make a scene and 0 drama even, if he tells you he is not interested.

Are you sure, that he is not married?

[PushOrganic]

There's a saying when it comes to dating at work that goes don't shit where you eat. We are taught this and it gets really drilled into our heads as guys to avoid dating at work ( of course I'm talking salaried and other high income line of work. It it were at a retail or resturant job then it really doesn't matter).

It seem's he's fighting his urges through avoidance

[Anonymous]

I’m married to a supervisory special agent and relationships aren’t tolerated at the building. It was this girl he worked with that ended up trying to get him in trouble by wanting to speak with him at work. Other times she would try and flirt with him. She was doing everything you doing right now until she realized that we were married. He requested her to be replaced and it was approved. He’s showing signs of him not being interested.

[seanras]

Did you guys not exchange numbers? You can always reach out to him from a colleague in his work place and find out. But if he is avoiding you, take the hint and move on. No person deserves to be in that position where they like someone and are being ignored.

[Anonymous]

If you are 100% sure that it is him using those accounts then he is not into you
but if you are not sure then obviously there is a possibility that you added the wrong person and he thought that maybe you are some random stalker and blocked you.

[Tinkytiny3]

U must really like this guy to be willing to leave your job.. why not tell him all this in person instead of trying to stalk his "profiles"

[Jjpayne]

I'd just plan to move on to another guy. It's not worth it to go through all the blocking and avoidance. Although it would be nice to get a message from him 🙄

[sheikalana]

Seems to me he's not interested. If he was really the one on all those social media profiles and then blocked you it's pretty clear he doesn't want to get in touch with you.

[LEADFOOTboi]

to me... it really sounds like he wants to disappear from you... I don't know why tho... you sound like a wonderful woman... maybe he's a snake of darkness running from your light he's discovered and he doesn't want to be illuminated

[Anonymous]

Give it up. It is a hint he doesn't wsh for you to find him. No matter the job ordeal, he is not into that or he would not be doing this to you. many other better guys, girl.

[claudear]

Sure it is possible.. Probably he doesn't like you back or he has a girlfriend already and your just there trying to get his attention.. Maybe he just wanna be a Friend and you wanting something more.. Take your time to know exactly what he want..

[Static_In_The_Attic]

I love a good STALKER STORY & after all this he’s probably saying this bitch is crazy.

[Anonymous]

What a Jerk. Man have a keeper right infront of them the perfect wife material what does the dick head do run off later they complain why did I get a bad wife.

[Shellyworld]

Please, avoid pussies like him. He sounds like one of exes. Seriously, kick him in the ass and move on. There are many amazing men in the world. Don’t love them they dont even deserve love.

[Incelmax666]

I wonder how good looking this guy must be if a girl show interest in him. He must look like a god

[Texaskid1]

It seems like he is not into you. Do yourself a favor and walk away.

[Anonymous]

You sound crazy. He just don't want to risk his job. Leave him work. It's all in your head

[Anonymous]

I remember you asked something about him before. Why are you so desperate? I don’t get some girls.

[Opinion Owner]

You need to learn about self worth and respect. Well he doesn’t want to be talking to you, so quit your searching.

[DrunkenMonkey1423]

Sorry but your going a little to overboard

[collie22]

who knows some guys are tricky