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My mother and I are at a total cross road on what to do. My step father for over ten years has been without a job for over a year now. I've witnessed his "we're gonna be okay stage" to his current depressive/anger stage. He claims to look for jobs, and sometimes he does, but most of the day he sleeps or plays games. He claim to be constantly sick, but won't get help for his "illnesses." He spends real money on these games (100$ or more) and all these things we don't need, and takes everything out on us when we dont "appreciate" his "gifts." He critiques everyone, but won't acknowledge his own flaws unless it get him sympathy or a reason to put guilt on others. I love him. I hate him. My mother loves him. My mother hates him. My mom works at a job she hates, and this man won't take anything for offer. I'm working part time at a job that just seriously cut back my hours, and im looking for another part time job to help my mom get by on the small bills. I also have school. Me and my mother try everything to help ourselves get by, and work hard for our time off together. He won't join us or be a part with us anymore, and we're stuck. We dont want lose him, but I certainly won't let my mother baby him the rest of her life. What would you do?