Ex girlfriend sent me a text the other night asking me how I have been? That is how it started. We haven't texted or contacted each other in over 4 months since she started dating someone new. We ended up texting for several hours, about 80-100 text all together. There was never any mention of the guy or if I was dating anyone, but I recently looked on his FB and saw he tagged her in a message that blasted her because of her FB. Her responses were not kind back to him. She takes a lot of selfies and the article called her narcissistic. She since then has added another selfies of herself, I guess to prove something, I don't know, I am not FB friends with her. The reason that she said she contacted me was because she said she remembered that my father passed away 10 years ago and to make sure I was ok. Her father passed away 7 years ago. I answered her questions, I didn't really ask her anything, but she kept the texting converstation going. That was 2 days ago. Now I want to know what I should do? What she is thinking, etc? Is the honeymoon phase over with this guy? I don't know if she is still with the guy or not. I do miss and love her. I want her back. Broke up 8 months ago. No cheating, she broke up with me saying we did not mesh.
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When an ex contacts you ALWAYS assume she wants to see you.
It does seem that her current boyfriend and her (if they're even still together) are going through a rough patch and she's reaching out to you in hopes that you're still there.
In your situation I would have simply replied to her text with "Hey! It's great to hear from you. I'd love to meet up, when are you free?".
Depending on whether I got a positive or negative response I would either invite her to bring a bottle of white wine over to mine for dinner OR I would tell her to contact me if she changes her mind.
An ex that dumps you has to do 100% of the contact, so NO I would not be thinking about contacting now if I was you... if she contacted you once, she'll contact you again.0