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When an ex contacts you ALWAYS assume she wants to see you.
It does seem that her current boyfriend and her (if they're even still together) are going through a rough patch and she's reaching out to you in hopes that you're still there.
In your situation I would have simply replied to her text with "Hey! It's great to hear from you. I'd love to meet up, when are you free?".
Depending on whether I got a positive or negative response I would either invite her to bring a bottle of white wine over to mine for dinner OR I would tell her to contact me if she changes her mind.
An ex that dumps you has to do 100% of the contact, so NO I would not be thinking about contacting now if I was you... if she contacted you once, she'll contact you again.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE