Guys, so I'm on GAG daily and I've been seeing a lot of guys asking questions about how to get a girl, and its fucken depressing to me.
How do I get a girlfriend? How do I approach her? What do I say? Where do I take her out on a date?
That's what everybody has been asking, but have no fear because Westcoast Bratt is here! (Wow, that accidently rhymed!) I'm going to give you guys tips on how to get a girlfriend, but mostly importantly I'm going to show you guys how to be a better version of yourself! Now keep in mind that I am by no means a dating coach, I am just sharing this info with you guys because this is what has worked for me. Quick story, If your probably reading this chances are you are having trouble women. I use to be no different than you, I once also use to be a loser just like you that would basically repell women! I would look at a gorgeous girl and think to myself "Wow, sweet mother of jesus! Look at her! Look at that ass, those tits, her hair! She's beautiful! I will never have a shot with her I'm a fucken loser, look at me!" And when she actually would talk to me I would freeze up and didn't know what to say, I felt like Fred Flinstone talking to women (Huminahuminahuminahuminahumina!)
Until one day I realized one thing; women aren't that different from guys! They eat, sleep, breathe, and shit just like us. So I began thinking to myself "if it was the other way around, and women were the ones approaching and talking to guys, how would I want it to go down!" And my answer to myself was "I would want her to 100% real and uncut!" And that what I started doing.
Tip #1: When ever you see a girl you like, it could be on the street, inside a store, at the mall, starbucks, on campus, it doesn't matter where, I want you to observe her for about 20-30 seconds. Look at what she's wearing, what she's doing, what she's ordering, and then say what you feel! 100% real just let it roll!
Example: If she's wearing red lipstick you can say "What's the big event? It's not everyday that a girl wears red lipstick."
And then boom! Congrats you have opened her up and started a small convo with her. Do this every day with girls, make it a goal to talk to 3 female strangers a day, don't ask them out just talk. Pretty soon this should become easy to you and you can move on to the next step!
Tip #2: These small conversations your having with girls can easily turn into phone numbers and dates!
Example: Your at the supermarket and the female cashier is ringing you up.
Me: Are you almost out of here or are you just clocking in?
Her: Nah, I wish, I just got here 15 minutes ago.
Me: No way, your closing tonight that sucks!
Her: No, I'm not closing, we close at midnight but I'm off at 10pm.
Me: oh that's not too bad, what you doing tonight? Anything fun?
Her: Not, really just going to go home work on some school work and watch some netflix in bed.
Me: Awwww really? That's no fun, why don't you let me take you out sometime? Write your number down for me and I'll give you a call.
Her: writes down number on piece of paper and hands it to me, 9 times out of 10 they'll write their name on the paper too.
Me: Nice to meet you Kate! My name is _________, I'll give you a call ok. Don't work too hard!
*Its very important for you guys not to copy this example because every girl is different. When I was talking to the cashier I said everything with a playful flirty style and a smile on my face.
Tip #3: Call her the very next day! So many guys fall into that bullshit 3 day rule, its dumb just call her the next day. She gave you her number for reason because she wants you to call, she likes you a little, basically you have a chance motherfucker! Call her and ask her out to something simple like coffee or lunch.
When the date comes just be yourself but to the power of 10, listen to what she has to say and when you reply to her, tell her your honest opinions on things. There's no canned routines or scripts that you can follow, you just have to feel it! Know what you want! Stop caring abot what she may want, fuck her! Your in charge!
Tip #4: open doors for her, and pull out her seat for her, I haven't met a girl who doesn't love it when a guy does this for them.
Tip #5: Hold her fucken hand! Stop being a bitch and stop thinking about when to hold her hand and just do it. Has soon has you guys get out of the car extend your hand so she can grab it and I promise you she will.
Tip #6: When dropping her off back home tell her you had a great time with her. Tell you that you liked hearing about her vacation trip to cancun and you can't wait to visit that place, then go in for the kiss. Don't stick your tongue down her throat, just a little peck on the lips will do! remember you want to leave her wanting more!
Anyways I hope this helps guys. You don't have to follow these tips but it doesn't hurt to try. Rememeber, Albert Einstein said that doing the same shit over and over expecting different results is called insanity, so switch it up guys try something different.
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