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I never thought of myself as good looking, but a neat beard, new hair style, cool and laid back personality and good style and being 6'2 apparently does make me really good looking (According to every girl i know), so based on everyone i know, it seems iam very good looking, but that doesn't serve me well in the dating world, sure i've dated before, i get looks a lot, i have very attractive women eyeing me and smiling at me sometimes, and the compliments, they're there. especially when iam at college and among college aged girls.

but the girls i always attract are either : 1- unattractive, 2- really hot but taken, i haven't attracted a hot single lady in a long long time... not to mention women seem much less likely to talk to me than to my average looking friends ( again what people say not my own opinion) .

Hot girls though... they dont seem to have a problem getting a man, and no guys aren't intimidated enough to stay away from them it only exists in fantasies and on this site, there is no such thing as "she's single because men are afraid to talk to her" it doesn't exist there is always a guy who will, heck i will if i know she's single and i've tried before (but turned out to be taken ) .

So iam asking a simple question : who has dating easier attractive men or attractive women? (easier as in more likely to be approached and talked to and not just stared at from afar )

Yes i have acid reflux and iam young , 21 years old, i have dated before and enjoyed life til a couple years ago i started suffering chest pains, stomach pains, annoying feelings, palpitations and other annoying symptoms after over a year of tests and doctors they discovered that i have Acid Reflux, it doesn't seem that dangerous and my doctor said it isn't but still it causes acid to go up my esophagus (and it can get it inflammed giving me so painful chest pains for a week or more) and sometimes even gives me painful abdominal pains and weird shakey feelings , palpitations.

I used to work out, enjoy life, eat whatever i wanted but now i can't, i have to avoid chocolate, mint, tomatoe sauce, fried food, most treats and sweets, spicy and hot food and pickles as well, plus i should not eat 2 hours before bed, overeat or bend too much during the day.

Iam on meds eating a healthy diet which keeps it under control, but dating means a girl has to be okay with putting up with all that and enjoying some meals alone while i watch her...

everyone says iam very good looking, have a great style (i like to take care of myself, groom and wear nice clothes ), smart, funny, interesting and down to earth, iam also 6'2 not fat and good at school (college)...

but i feel like iam asking too much of a girl whose just starting her life and has to put up with me and my condition, iam not trying to be overdramatic but even my parents find it annoying sometimes that i can't eat a lot of things...

do i have any chance with a decent girl? not gonna lie i dont think so but i hope iam wrong...

When in a relationship, Straight Up means that you waste no time saying what needs to be said and you pay less attention to how it's being said. You expect the same from your partner.
On the dating scene, Straight Up means that you walk up to someone and express your interest in them, then ask them out or to get a drink or to dance, boom!

When in a relationship, On the Rocks means that you are very deliberate about what you say to your partner, when you say it, how you say it, etc.
On the dating scene, On the Rocks means that you walk up to someone, converse with them a bit to feel them out, and then ask them out or to get a drink.