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I feel like men don’t like me and I’m simply unlucky. I’m 25 and never had a real relationship. All the guys that I don’t find physically attractive go after me. This applies in real life and online. I always hear about women being approached by their current partners and the men are typically good looking. I’m told I’m pretty, when a man generally makes the first move with me online, it doesn’t usually go well but it at least leads to a potential date. I don’t make the first move to approach men. When I message them on the apps, they take forever to respond or never respond period. I figured making a move would increase my chances but guess not. All the men that like me I don’t like back and the ones I want usually don’t make it known to me. Am I being too picky?

So I have liked this guy for 2 years and during the first year, I told him and he told me that he did not like me but he could see us together. Which I was confused about but I didn't question him anymore about it. But we would talk all the time back then. But He is always busy now and isn't a very good texter. Everytime I see him, he is either busy or I just get really nervous around him and I don't know what to say to him that could lead to more to talk about lol. When we do talk, it seems like he doesn't give me direct eye contact at all. Almost like I'm not there but I do this sometimes too when I am nervous but I have no idea what he means by it. But he is so nice and respectful towards me. Of course that doesn't mean he likes me back. I'm not really afraid of him saying he doesn't like me back. I guess I'm more afraid of the awkwardness that could possibly occur during the conversation.
I guess my question is, should I bring this up to him again considering that I already did 2 years ago? Or should I not bother him about it anymore?