Search Results: Single mom

He’s a married Asian man (not my type and I only like black men) he offered me to go to the park with him and his toddler and my toddler while his wife is at work and teen is at home. Just seems weird cause I’m black and a single mom (nothing wrong with either) but we have two different lifestyles.

He’s my neighbor and married with kids. When they first moved in I called cops on them for blasting music instead of going to their door cause I’m a single mom and it was late at night. Days later I explained to them why I did that and didn’t want any drama and that I didn’t mind the music being played as long as it wasn’t late at night. Everything seemed fine. Then the intentional noise started (banging and stomping) so I confronted him alone to see if things would be different. So then he offers to meet up with me at the park alone with our toddlers while his wife is at work, why? I don’t know but I never did. Another time at the park he was trying to engage with me and I was ignoring him, on a later date he asked why I was ignoring him and I said because the noise was intentional to me. There’s a big difference between regular house sounds and people moving around and someone intentional making noise. It’s so disrespectful to cause problems for others and speaks volumes about how unhappy a person is.

My toddler has adhd. As his mom I would know before doctors and strangers. He doesn’t nap and will stay up from 7am- 8pm or later. I also give him melatonin at night. As a single mom it’s a lot and with his out of control and extreme behavior I feel drained, overwhelmed and defeated. During the afternoon he can use a nap to continue to grow and I can get sometime alone and peace and quiet.

I feel like single dads distribute their love more evenly with their child and partner than single moms do. Single moms are always saying that their children come before their partner.

Men also usually have much better financial situations. Studies also show that fathers are happier parents in general:

https://news.ucr.edu/articles/2019/01/30/fathers-are-happier-parents-mothers-new-study-shows