Was he trying to mess with me or was it innocent?

[indiaxlovee]

He’s a married Asian man (not my type and I only like black men) he offered me to go to the park with him and his toddler and my toddler while his wife is at work and teen is at home. Just seems weird cause I’m black and a single mom (nothing wrong with either) but we have two different lifestyles.

He’s attracted to me and wanted to mess with me

It’s innocent

[SnowedIn]

Innocent. You both have toddlers. He's trying to be friendly and perhaps craving human connection from an adult who isn't his wife but not in a creepy bad way. I wouldn't worry about this. In fact, this could help both of you if you develop trust enough you can watch each other's kids if necessary.

[Summeroflove]

I have no idea. If he’s married hopefully innocent. But if. You don’t feel comfortable just decline. Don’t be nasty about it. Just say you can’t

[HollyK21]

I think it’s innocent, and better not to make it more in your mind especially since he’s married. You both have toddlers, so why not invite you?

[annabananna]

I think it very well could be innocent. He may think your children get along well and just want a play date.

[annabananna]

During the day while wife is at work may be the best time of day for his child.

[indiaxlovee]

Maybe but he could’ve easily went by himself or with other parents at the park. Why invite me? It makes no sense

[annabananna]

Was he wanting his kid to hang out with yours? I know some kids that will beg a parent to hang out with a specific kid they like hanging with. Don’t get me wrong he could be using this as a way to get in but I can also see this being very innocent.

[777GgG]

Sounds like he wanted your kid to play with his kid.. sounds like a play date?

[In_Trance]

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