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** by the way I wore what is exactly in my photo collage, a grey shirt and my blue jean shorts. It’s summer time and I refuse to be overdressed.

So I went into a restaurant with my toddler ordering lunch for us. Immediately the two girls who worked there most likely in their 20’s was fixated on me. They were laughing and looking my way and it’s like WTF you’re not professional at all and there’s nothing wrong with how I look. Keep in mind I’m 37 and we’re NOT in the same generation. They weren’t even attractive younger females and both considered chubby or fat to most of society, definitely not lookers in my opinion. I’m not mad or anything but just curious. I mind my business, comfortable in my skin and love who I am so the energy I got from them wasn’t even cool. Then the guy who worked there started instigating basically saying “don’t talk about her lol” he’s a piece of shit and easily age 30-35 and knew better. Instead he thought it was funny, I knew they were talking about me and he wanted to make sure I knew. Why? I don’t know. Maybe because he was a fat fuck I’d never want with raccoon eyes and look drugged out.

This girl randomly messaged me and told me I was fat and that it made her feel confident in herself because I looked ugly (note I’ve never seen her in my life, this was off of social media randomly which is weird). Now there’s nothing wrong with being fat but it’s just weird coming from a girl who’s overweight while I’m almost underweight? Top photo is her, bottom photo is me. Why do you think she would randomly bully me especially since I’m visibly thinner than her?

My weight is pretty average, maybe even a little less than average. In my opinion being skinny just suits my bodyframe a lot better and if I gain weight, it's always in the wrong places.

My ideal bodytype would look like this:

I told my boyfriend that I wanted to loose some weight and he said: A skinny bidy just looks disgustig but it's something else when the person is Asian.

He then showed me a picture a picture if what he deems as the perfect body for women:

He doesn't understand that:
1. Not everybody stores fat the same way
2. Not everybody feels comfortable in such a bodyshape
3. Not everybody I happy just because they constantly give into their cravings

What is your opinion?