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He is twenty and he was overweight back than, loosed a lot of weight by now and he is really fine, an intelligent humorous and curious guy who never had a girlfriend but feels lonely for that.. His style even didn't scared me of, when we met at first, I knew we'd be really good friends to each other and I feel sorry for wanting to change his style but at the same time, he deserves to be himself while wearing comfortable clothes that fit him well. I really don't have bias upon a person's style and I accept him for who he are, but he's now old enough to have some responsibility for what he is wearing. His bust is like that of a woman with an A-cup. So I suppose it could be difficult to find clothes fitting his upper body. He wears t shirts from that time he was overweight and it does absolutely not look good.

When it gets to his lower body, he has beautiful strong and manly legs but always does wear his black sweatpants that even don't fit him well it sometimes looks like he pooped in his pants cause they slipping down. All of his long pants have a few holes that you can see and that ruin his personality completely. Also I worry for that smartass finding a job that doesn't care about looks.

I know you if you really like someone for who they are then let them be as they are. It's not like I don't know that, and I'm absolutely not embarrassed. I just want to see him happy in his own skin again. That style even doesn't fit his personality he said that is comfortable. But---my darling---why don't he wears sweatpants then, that fits him at least? He said because he didn't think about it when money arrives, it's all about alcohol, cigarettes, gaming and weed. So if I was going to buy him some clothes, because I really know he likes them as well, but had to spend my own money. How would you see it? Is it disperectful of me doing that?

I love the idea of a traditional relationship and being femmine but being girly/femmine is looked down upon litterally everywhere. I feel bad for being a virgin because in a way it's not normal or trendy. To top that off I'm unattractive so I don't activity date but if I did and went after what I wanted/ got it people would say this shit-

1. I'm gold digging
2. I'm a black woman, therefore most people would say I don't deserve to live this kind of lifestyle.
3. People will say that I'm too ugly/fat I have better than I deserve.

So I can't help but think is being traditional really wrong? We all tell people to be what they want to be but I'm noticing a lot of shaming and pressuring of others to confirm to a certain standard.