Search Results: avoiding conversation

Have any of you guys ever felt like you're not good enough to have dates? Does anyone else feel so little confidence in dating?

I'm as good a listener as I am a talker but I don't predict people's responses and reactions very well in any way so I don't think I can get any better at doing the conversation thing. I get nervous in the middle of...

nicolesomeone

Xper 3 Age: 31

Why the heck is my ex from work being stupid nice to me out of no where?

I was dating this guy at work for six months. But the last three months it just didn’t seem to click. I never knew where I stood with him but when I asked if this was what he still wanted he would keep saying yes. Come to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why Do Some Men Seem More Attractive Than Others To Women?

Is it because the guy is more confident? Or is it because he is more “alpha?” I’m going to say that it is neither of these things. Being more confident can lead a person to be overly confident and becoming cocky to the...

Knighted2170

Yoda Age: 55

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Girls, Why would a girl and guy avoid each other for no reason?

I like this girl at work and when we met, we just instantly got along so easily it was natural. We've known each other for a while. Now it seems like we both avoid each other for no reason as it's like breaking the ice...

ando90

Xper 7 Age: 31

This guy thinks that I like him and he is now awkward and cold around me. How do I handle this?

This guy and I have a mutual friend. One day I was invited my this friend to come to a bar. The guy was there with his colleagues. When I first got to the bar I was late and sat between two of his colleagues. He offered...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Flirting

Asked for her "Instagram" instead of a phone number. How do I fix this?

Met this girl working and she finished her shift. Ran to her and initiated conversation by her car. I asked for her Instagram instead of her number, to which she did give but it was just her "art account". I'm trying...

DeputyD

Xper 3 Age: 35

Flirting

Can I still save face?

Fellas I need some advice. Met this girl working at a store and luckily enough she just finished her shift so talked one on one as I walked her to her car. I'm a pretty shy person so of course I was nervous and said...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Male collegue always looking down/away to the side when talking to me even after initiating conversation?

Confused by a work colleague I have worked with for 4 years. He's always been quite reserved/humble/shy but has no problem making conversation with others. Here's some of the things he has done: I was on the phone at...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why is he so tense around me?

This guy I work with used to be so chill and easygoing, and we used to talk a lot. Out of nowhere he became so weird. He acts completely normal around everyone else, but he interacts with me in a strange way. Here are...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is he doing this on purpose and why is he doing this?

There is a guy at work I find to be attractive. Usually we vibe very well, flirt, talk and fool around. The last few weeks everything was normal and we were doing our usual thing. Monday it seemed like he completely was...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Should I approach him?

Always lurks around but avoids eye contact. Will be super confident and make eye contact even smile then avoid and get shy again. Will get close to me then pretend not to see me. Attention-seeking by lifting...

Anonymous

(36-45)

First Date Questions/Conversation Starters...

It can be hard going on a first date. Nerves can kick in, "Will they like me?" "What should we talk about?" And, sometimes the questions you ask can say as much about you and your personality as the answers you give to...

Brainsbeforebeauty

Influencer Age: 53

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Guys, I was wondering why at first he avoided my question and changed the topic?

I like my guy friend a lot from past one month.. while we were having a conversation I asked him why u don't text me? Is it like u don't text me because u wait for my text? He totally changed the question and engaged me...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Going on a date & I think he has the impression I’m expecting him to pay and it’s making me cringe. Should I make it clear I’m not expecting it?

He’s booked tickets for our first meeting. I offered to give him my half. He said sort it out on the day. I thanked him. In general conversation I explained I had work, and he replied saying yeah get your drink money etc....

Anonymous

(36-45)

What are some reasons a guy would suddenly become cold with a girl he is attracted to?

Examples of cold behavior: Ignoring, avoiding eye contact, becoming very serious around the girl, not willing to make conversation or joke around, being passive-aggressive. Did he want more from the girl but gave up...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girls, you accept the date but avoid giving a phone number?

Why are some of you girls like that? The girl started following me first because she likes how I look, I returned following, and she doesn't follow many people, so not adding any handsome dude. So I started the...

ozzzzy

Xper 3 Age: 32

What the hell is she thinking?

Long story short, I had talked to this woman occasionally. One day I hand her a note asking her out and giving her my number during our conversation. She seems excited to get it, but she never replies yes or no. Next...

Anonymous

(30-35)