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I've been with this person for almost 2 years. When I first met him, I knew that he's not rich or is a lawyer/doctor. I am just in love for the first time. But, The longer I'm with him the more I think he's a loser. Do you guys agree?
- doesn't really have friends and no male friends that's close to him
- he avoids being close friends with people who's more well off/smarter than him (likes to be with people lower than him and those people just uses him but he is okay with it makes him feel manly
- he's constantly broke and can never stick to a job for more than few months
- has loans and not paying them at all for years (lets them go to collections and doesn't care)
- bad credit (can't even apply for credit cards)
- relying on me to pay his bills when he's broke... Owes me over $8000
- when he has money his first priority is to buy weed (brags that smoking weed is healthy for you)
- he thinks he can afford to buy beer/ go to the bar when he only has $200 in his bank account (doesn't know the value of money)
- worries about me cheating most of the time
- he brags about his successes and they are all long ago (when i was in highschool i was really buffed...)
- doesn't listen to my advices or comments since he's always right... But the next day he brings up what i said is what he thought and was the best but never credit me
- never say sorry unless i say it first
- rarely does any chores or cooking
- he loses motivation after couple days (i'm going to do this and that... Eitheir never does it or after couple days he forgets it)

I came from a well off family and I have a stable income career that pays pretty well. I am a young woman with a professional job. I have good credits and I can afford to buy my own house. He's totally opposite. I love him but his financial and mentality state gives me a lot of stress. Sometimes I feel bad for him but he is a nice guy. Deal breaker?

My boyfriend consistently ditches me or is late. There's also a number of times he has lied to me. Yet he claims that I am not normal/weird for being upset. I will list a few examples.

1. This is the most frequent. Happens so often that when he tells me "I won't be late" or we make arrangements, I already know it's not going to happen. He sends me a message saying he's going out. Right then & there. This was not previously discussed. Then he ignores me. Often for over 6 hours until 2 am.
2. He went to Brazil last year for work. He told me he didn't intend to travel. On the 3rd day of being there, he sent a text saying he decided to travel, his boss said he could. He disappeared for an entire week. This was bad enough; a business trip turning into a leisure trip without him informing me of his whereabouts, no answers to messages, phone calls unanswered. About 4 months after this I saw on booking. com that he booked the hotels for various cities in Brazil BEFORE he even left. So this was planned. I. e. he lied about it having been a "spontaneous" idea.
3. He met up with some woman from the internet. He didn't tell me. He is adamant that he did but I know for sure he didn't. How do I know? Because we bumped into this woman and she yelled "you should have told me you have a girlfriend!". When we got home, there was a letter in the letterbox with several massage bottles from said woman claiming my boyfriend fucked her. My boyfriend says she's crazy. I want to believe him but he lied about her in the first place.
4. One night he was suposedly not feeling good and in bed. I remember the date of that night. Well, one day I was cleaning the apartment and found a receipt. It was for a bar, from that night, obviously consumption by more than one person. He claims it wasn't him, but it is his credit card number and it was in his apartment so yes... .