Search Results: life plan

How much is too much texting before the first date?

i matched with this guy on hinge and we’ve been texting “non stop” since last Sunday, talking about literally anything. we would respond to each other within 1-2 hours, or when we both aren’t busy. he is so far the only...

Anonymous

(25-29)

i matched with this guy on hinge and we’ve been texting “non stop” since last Sunday, talking about literally anything. we would respond to each other within 1-2 hours, or when we both

Select gender and age to cast your vote:

Dating

What are some downsides and upsides of having a relationship with large age gap?

I would never imagine asking this question, but life is unpredictable. I am currently interested in someone very nice and we plan to go on our 3rd date next week. It’s just a beginning and I don’t have my hopes high, but...

LaFemmeFatale_1

Guru Age: 29

Break Up & Divorce

Guys, What are the chances of my ex boyfriend coming back after no contact?

Lalabee4

Xper 1 Age: 30

I have an Anxious Preocuppied Attachment style and he is a fearful avoidant, both 28. We had been together for 3 years before he broke up with me almost a month ago while celebrating

I have an Anxious Preocuppied Attachment style and he is a fearful avoidant, both 28. We had been together for 3 years before he broke up with me almost a month ago while celebrating our anniversary / my birthday. The month prior, he had moved to a new city due to being transferred at his job, so new workplace as well. His company gave him 2 weeks to move his whole life over there and he had to do the move while still going to work so he was highly stressed. The city is about 1.5hrs away by train from where I am (and he also was) and I have plans to go there next year for work, so we were thinking of going there together. So a long distance relationship would have been temporary and we would have seen each other once a month in person. He reassured me that everything would be okay and that we would absolutely make it work.

When he came back to our city a week after moving/starting his new job (for the celebration), he looked very stressed. His work week was hectic and he’d get home at around 9pm every day and go straight to sleep (about one message a day). At the hotel, where we were celebrated, he seemed to be in a terrible mood so I asked him what was wrong a bunch of times and also mentioned our future (moving in together eventually, which we’ve talked about before) and he said he didn’t know and couldn’t give me the answer that I wanted. He then came up with a bunch of excuses about needing to focus on himself and his career and not having the bandwidth to be in a relationship anymore. That he couldn’t cherish me. There was no changing his mind. I left the hotel and went back home.

The next day I called to make up and talk again but he was firm in his decision so we each apologized and thanked each other and that was it. He deleted me from IG and hasn’t reached out since. I have been in NC. I’m extremely hurt and am wondering if this is temporary or permanent? He broke up with me once before but came back after 20 mins apologizing. What should I do?

Select gender and age to cast your vote:

Guy's Behavior

Is he interested or lost interest and is leading me on?

I hung out with a guy from tinder a few days ago and it went super well and he was clearly interested. He told me about himself and was even vulnerable, talking about his life and some tough things he’s been through. I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Family & Friends

7 Types of People I Can't Stand in My Life

Here are 7 types of people I dislike in a social setting. If you are open minded or interested, I invite you to read myTake. 1. People Who Butchers My Name I can't stand people who butchers my name in any shape or form...

Shiningtempest

Yoda Age: 30

1 2 See More

Education & Career

Why does everyone want to fight me on being a farmer?

All my life all I ever wanted was a homestead to grow fruits and vegetables take care of my animals make cheese and yogurt is it glamorous no it's a slimy dirty job but it makes me happy but everyone in my life seems so...

soulbabe

Guru Age: 26

Society & Politics

Would you say that most women feel self-entitled to men's money and resources in relationships without reciprocating anything on their end?

I see a lot of women on social media who whine and moan about doing house chores and splitting the bills 50/50 with their boyfriends or husbands yet don't even have kids or work a job themselves while men do all the sole...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I see a lot of women on social media who whine and moan about doing house chores and splitting the bills 50/50 with their boyfriends or husbands yet don't even have kids or work a job

Select gender and age to cast your vote:

Society & Politics

Do the Republicans actually think before they talk or is there automatic response to everything is "Blame Biden"?

https://www.newsweek.com/hawaii-wildfires-joe-biden-victims-payment-backlash-1819883 Joe Biden Sending $700 to Maui Fire Victims Sparks Backlash: 'Insulting' President Joe Biden is facing renewed criticism for his...

legalboxers

Editor Age: 49

Dating

Guys, would you date a woman in this situation? Girls seriously how's this womens life style condusive for dating?

Okay, the woman's 40, she has two biological kids and three step kids from a previous marriage. So 5 kids, her youngest is 20, is pregnant and lives in the same home as her, with a due date of 1 September. The grand child...

DaveJord

Influencer Age: 49

Okay, the woman's 40, she has two biological kids and three step kids from a previous marriage. So 5 kids, her youngest is 20, is pregnant and lives in the same home as her, with a due

Select gender and age to cast your vote:

Dating

Online Dating: he says he likes me but why isn’t he messaging me all day?

Met a guy via a dating app. He’s really sweet and we hit it off pretty quickly. So backstory: early on he asked me out, some time after we got to know each other more. I told him I had very recently gotten out of a long...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

Am I a bad friend for this? *reupload into correct topic?

Hello all, I'm a 21yr F, I have a friend - let's call her 'coconut', 22 F. Coconut got into a relationship with a guy, he was not a bad person, however, when he was in a relationship with Coconut his 'dark side', which we...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Family & Friends

Why does my guy friend insist on still talking even though he knows he doesn’t have time?

This may be a little long and I’ll try to add a TLDR. I’ve known this man for 7 years now. We used to talk EVERY day, a good amount of the day, until a little over a year ago. Not much changed, but then 9 months ago,...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

Is this a sign of bad relationship?

I feel like I got to ask my girlfriend permission to do stuff? Like if I wanted to go somewhere I feel I got to ask permission? Or is this normal? This is why I don’t plan anything because she say something like you don’t...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

Is there any point in dating someone if you don't plan to be with them for the rest of your life?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

I went on a date with this guy but he’s blue balling me ever since?

It’s going to be over a week since our first date and I’m so annoyed as he hasn’t planned a second date with me yet he keeps texting me hot pictures of him and I’m like oh yeah you look good But I want to be in this...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Guys, What are we in his eyes?

Guys can I get your perspective on this? He doesn’t want to label what our relationship is but he does this.. • texts me in the morning when he’s otw to work, middle of the day, when he’s done with work and basically...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

I haven't dated in a very long time. Am I doing this right?

So long story short, I had a friend with benefits for years. We stopped seeing each other for almost a year. One day, about a month ago, he texted me. He told me he wants to be in my life and spend time with me. I missed...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

This girl I used to date became cool again (we talk frequently otp) and she invited me to an event and introduced me to her parents?

Me and this girl used to date a year ago, I lacked self confidence back then, was awkward and nervous around her and didn’t really take care of myself. I used to drink and get high and say belligerent things on the phone...

vcr123

Xper 4 Age: 25

Girl's Behavior

In the fence of asking her for a date or not?

To make a long story short, a girl (26) I (28) met during the summer messaged me again, we fooled around a bit and when she left we kept in touch almost daily for a month and a bit. I also turned back to our city during...

Grigi

Xper 2 Age: 31

Dating

Should I confess?

He once mention about not looking for a relationship right now (not me asking, just him sharing his life plan)… But he always treat me special etc, should i just confess or i shouldn’t?

Anonymous

(18-24)

He once mention about not looking for a relationship right now (not me asking, just him sharing his life plan)… But he always treat me special etc, should i just confess or i shouldn’t?

Select gender and age to cast your vote: