Guys, What are we in his eyes?

[Anonymous]

Guys can I get your perspective on this?

He doesn’t want to label what our relationship is but he does this..
• texts me in the morning when he’s otw to work, middle of the day, when he’s done with work and basically throughout the day

• will let me know he’s thinking of me

• takes me on dates

• make future plans with me included

• cooks for me

• sends me flowers & gifts

• I’ve slept over and he let me keeps my clothes and stuff there

• calls me by a pet name

• recently said ily while we were making out

i really dont get it. He does everything to show me that im the only girl in his life but he doesn’t want to label it. What is this?

[WhiteBorr]

Sounds like he's just happy being with you and may not want any perceived pressure of a defined relationship

[Asker]

Is this an open relationship or friends with benefits?

[WhiteBorr]

Neither. You're making the mistake again by trying to define the relationship. If you say it's an open relationship, that equals you are expecting to cheat on one another. If you define as friends with benefits, then you are saying you don't love each other as a couple.

[Anonymous]

I don't know but hopefully you don't get too attached and then some scenario play out you don't want

[Asker]

What kind of scenario?

[Anonymous]

It is all good apart from the pointless texting.