What does he see in me?

[Anonymous]

Im a single mother with two kids.. and a man I'm talking to actually wants to marry and live with me, he has a really high salary.. I don't even have a job.. is he just desperate or does he actually see some value in me if so what is it... I don't even know what good I can offer him accept my heart

[Anonymous]

Your age, he can control you easier and you see him as above you. Given the overall ego driven collective, it's unlikely he sees anything deeper so I will just be honest. He probably has self esteem issues, low confidence, low self esteem, and is desperate.

[Asker]

Thanks for the honesty.. I was hoping someone would be :)

[Opinion Owner]

You're welcome. But lets hope I'm wrong! If you seriously ask yourself what you bring to the table, for example your personality, energy, demeanor, femininity and other traits. If a woman is very easy to be around, affectionate, caring, loving, feminine and reasonably attractive, that can be enough for most men.

[Asker]

Thanks

[Opinion Owner]

You're welcome. I'm curious, do you fit any of those traits I mentioned?

[Anonymous]

Maybe you treat him better than other women and are attractive to him

[Asker]

Well I'm 10 years younger so that might be it but I'd hope he's attracted to more than just my looks

[Opinion Owner]

I’m sure it’s your personality too

[Asker]

Thanks

[Opinion Owner]

You’re welcome